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 Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 12:58 pm
its my new boyfriend,i love him to death,but he has this drawn pic of him and his ex-lover's avatars kissing and its making me very uncomfortable, and unshure of if he loves me
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 1:19 pm
hmmmm....maybe he just thought his ex's avatar was cool...
did their relationship end on good terms? If it did, no reason they can be friends. If your boyfriend is artistic, he might just enjoy drawing.
If all else fails, ask him about it! sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 3:00 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 7:47 pm
Talk to him..I doubt its a kind of missing him type thing..i agree wiht what this one^(goldmario) said. Maybe he just likes how his advatar looks..I dont know..just talk to him.
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 12:08 am
yea don't jump to conclusions. but do ask him directly about it.
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 7:24 am
Why not just talk to him about it? Tell him how you feel, tell him why you feel the way you do.. 3nodding its important that you can talk about everything with your bf... Or any partner, really.. Talking is just important
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 8:05 am
Like everyone said. Voice how you feel and let him know it's uncomfortable. More than likely he hates the fact that something he did hurt you, I know mine does. Talking is the only way to find out the truth and with the trust that you two will have when you talk will bring you closer together.
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Posted: Tue Jun 07, 2005 7:47 pm
yes, tell him about it...hey, maybe you can draw a picture of your and his avatar kissing heart that'd be sweet, and he'd understand how you feel.
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 7:35 am
Tell him that he can save the picture to his computer and that you don't enjoy seeing it in his signature or wherever it is. If he really has feelings for you, he'll listen. :3
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:21 am
Yeah. Don't make my mistake. Getting jelious about something that isn't there. He's with you not him. He's na artist as you've said. Art is art. Yes for most artist evey piece of art they do is a part of them, but i could be mistaken. You should talk to him if it make you feel this way. It's the best way to deal witht he problem. Arguing will not solve anyhting. It could be that he still may have feelings for his ex, but still, you havefind out. Otherwise your mind willmanifest even worse scenarios. Talk to him.
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:10 pm
Have you asked him about it? Maybe he'll change it if he knows it upsets you.
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:35 pm
im not the jealous type.. and usually things liek this dont concern me.. so all i cans ay s ask him about it.. and if it upsets you THAT much to see a drawing of internet people.. then tell him how you feel.
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 11:09 am
The truth will set you free, but the response won't. Tell him, I'm just saying depending on your boyfriend. What he's like, you can determine what's going to happen. But you should still tell him. That's trust and honesty right there.
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 12:42 pm
Would you please change the topic to something that reflects what your talking about. Please. As with anything in life, if you dont ask, you will never know what other people are thinking wink
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Posted: Wed Aug 31, 2005 5:00 pm
The truth is a hard thin g to let out depending on you. If ou are open and not so insocure, it woill most likely be easier for you to tell the truth. On the other hand, the truth can be harder to say becassue the outcome may be beyond what it can become in reality. You are afraid. It can hurt you or them. But no matter what, the truth is always the best way to go. It goes along with honesty. I alwasy tell her
"I can't help you if you don't tell me what's wrong."
I like her to be honest and truthful to me becasue I am to her. i am open to her compleatly. I never lie to her and I will alway tell her if something is wrong. And I always believe what she tells me because I trust her compleatly. And if she lies, I trust she will tell me the truth eventually. let her take it upon herself. If something wrong happens, she'll know why and it will be her fault. ButI will be there to help her. Honest, truth, and trust. That's what I think is more important. heart love
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