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 Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 10:34 pm
I have 2 parts to this story
First: I don`t know if i should tell my parents if i`m bi or not b/c i`m afriad that they would kick me out the house. they are very homophobie and they would be asamed of me. They would not understand why i am or how i b/c bi
Second: would you go back to someone if they had cheated on u with someone that u hated? My GF cheated on me and i don`t know whether to forgive her or break u with her. this is not the first time that she has and i don`t know what to do. Also she is homophobie.
SO CAN ANYONE HELP ME???
PLEASE PM M IF U CAN HELP ME
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 12:52 pm
well first off, do you feel comfertable with being bisexual enough to tell them? if the answer's no, then no you shouldnt tell them. but if it's yes, then sure you can tell them. But only tell them if and when you are ready too. I'm problay never gonna tell my parents, unless I end falling for a girl, because I just dont feel that comfertable telling them about it.
As for the second thing, no you shouldnt. If she's done it twice, whats keeping her from doing it even more? you should really end it before you get souriously hurt by her actions.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 3:12 pm
i agree with toeboysgurl. only a couple things to add:
1) even though u may wanna tell ur parents, i advise u not to. they will make ur life a living hell. especially since u already know theyre homophobes. my dad was actually the one who taught me acceptance of homosexuals and now hes the once giving me s**t for being bi.
2) if ur ex is homophobic i dont think u should get back with her, not to mention her cheating. u should be with sum1 who can accept u the way u r, or not at all, right?
hope this helps mrgreen
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 3:36 pm
Well, to your first question, I'd say not to risk it. Wait until your allready out of the house to tell them. Keeping it a secret is not usually something I'd recomend, but it beats being kicked out.
As for your ex, I'd understand how you might want to get back together with her, but she just doesn't sound trustworthy. It seems like you'd be setting yourself up for heartbreak. Once again, I'd have to say not to risk it.
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Posted: Sun Jun 05, 2005 8:48 pm
I'd advise you not to tell your parents. No matter how hard it is, don't, until you're on your own with a stable job, that way you won't have to deal with them making your life a living hell if they can't come to terms with your sexuality.
And for your second question, those who cheat are bound to repeat. I'd advise you not to go out with her.
If you need to tell somone you're bi just to get it off your chest, then tell a close friend whom you think would understand, or tell some random person who you don't know and probably aren't going to see again... though it may creep the hell outta the random person.
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Posted: Mon Jun 06, 2005 8:02 am
ToeboysGurl well first off, do you feel comfertable with being bisexual enough to tell them? if the answer's no, then no you shouldnt tell them. but if it's yes, then sure you can tell them. But only tell them if and when you are ready too. I'm problay never gonna tell my parents, unless I end falling for a girl, because I just dont feel that comfertable telling them about it. that's how i feel too about the first question. for the second one. it's really up to you and how much you care for this girl. But it seems really wrong to me that you and her are that close and that she don't know you are bi and that she is homophobic. how does that work when you two went out anyways??? confused
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Posted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 8:03 am
Good advice everyone, though i doubt he'll be back to read any of it. |:
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 4:46 pm
[spooky]
Good advice everyone, though i doubt he'll be back to read any of it. |:Thanks Everyone for helping me in this time of need. If anyone needs help( like with a quest or something ) Just ask me ok.
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:13 am
1)Don't tell them until you knwo you can support yourself. Just to be safe. ******** them being ashamed. I haven't told my partents yet that i'm bi becasue i'm still in high school. Wait for the right time so everything won't crumble around your ears.
2) If she's cheated on you twice already, once a cheater alway a ******** her. There are better girls or guys out there for you. your avatar looks really cute. I can only asume you are too. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:17 pm
Heh, I know how you feel about confessing to your parents (I'm a little scared too) but when the time comes you'll know it. Oh, and the GF problem...Does she love you back? It doesn't really seem so. She probably has a hard time breaking it off with people. I'd say break up because she's only causing you heartache, but, it's whatever feels right for that situation.
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Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2005 7:29 pm
okay.. i dont suggest telling your parent even if you are comfortable with being bi or not.. it will onyl cause you more trouble if they are twats about it.. but anyways.. i suggest dropping that chick because someone who would cheat on you multiple times for sure wont stop.. unless you like her cheating on you then dump your girlfriend in a hurry.
this is only a guideline.. take what will help you.. if anything.. and good luck
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