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 Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 5:36 pm
So the title has almost nothing to do with the topic.
I don't care.
MY ex-girlfriend is trying to help me please
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She calls him and tells him "everything I put her through" which was her twisted rendition of what she did to me.
He then calls me in return asking me if what she said is true, and no matter how much I deny it, he takes her word over mine [[due to the fact she "went through what I will put him through."]]
She messages my myspace, which he goes onto and redesigns every now and then, and tells me how much she "loves me more than anything in the world, and love to have me back in her life, like what it used to be."
He sees those messages thinking that I am trying to get back with her, which is not true!
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Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2006 6:19 pm
Maybe I'm just a little out of it, but I think that you need to give a little more information than that.
All I can really say right now is that you should as her to stop interfering because you've moved on, and she should as well. Other than that, I can't offer any more info without getting more info about it. If you feel uncomfortable with giving it out in a public place, my IM's or PM's are always open.
EDIT: Seems to me like she's still got a flame for you and is trying to get him to think you're going to hurt him, so he'll leave you. I think you need to explain to her that the relationship between you two is over, and what she is doing is not going to make you like her.
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Posted: Sun Oct 08, 2006 3:20 pm
Tell your ex to stop interfering, and leave you alone. Tell her you value honesty in a relationship, and her obvious lack of it will not get her anywhere. Or just ignore her.
Also, if your boyfriend is taking her word over yours, you may want to reconsider the relationship. At the very least talk to him. For any relationship to work there has to be a level of trust, and if he cannot trust you then something needs to be fixed.
And you can always block your ex from sending you messages on myspace.
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Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 2:03 pm
Obnoxia So the title has almost nothing to do with the topic.
I don't care.
MY ex-girlfriend is trying to help me please
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She calls him and tells him "everything I put her through" which was her twisted rendition of what she did to me.
He then calls me in return asking me if what she said is true, and no matter how much I deny it, he takes her word over mine [[due to the fact she "went through what I will put him through."]]
She messages my myspace, which he goes onto and redesigns every now and then, and tells me how much she "loves me more than anything in the world, and love to have me back in her life, like what it used to be."
He sees those messages thinking that I am trying to get back with her, which is not true! i hate ex gf/bf those losers.... tell her if she dont stop ill kick her a** razz
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Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 5:10 pm
AraTeran Tell your ex to stop interfering, and leave you alone. Tell her you value honesty in a relationship, and her obvious lack of it will not get her anywhere. Or just ignore her. Also, if your boyfriend is taking her word over yours, you may want to reconsider the relationship. At the very least talk to him. For any relationship to work there has to be a level of trust, and if he cannot trust you then something needs to be fixed. And you can always block your ex from sending you messages on myspace. This is good advice! I'm backing this one, because I honestly couldn't have said it any better. It really comes down to the trust between you and your boyfriend. She would have nothing on this if your boyfriend believed you. You shouldn't have to try to win his trust when he is obviously skeptical of everything you say. You need to have a long talk with him as well as a talk with your ex-friend (if possible). This is useless drama that you don't deserve to be in the middle of.
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