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Posted: Sun Oct 01, 2006 10:02 am
Clayra Aiko_589 che_hyun Aiko_589 but what want to note is womens speech, in your country to speak like a women, you just need to say "like, omg" and wave your hands around sweatdrop O_O 'Like OMG' is prep-talk...and it became uncool about a week after it became cool. If you say this, you're either making fun of preps or you ARE a prep. Prep = (stereotype) Stupid, shallow, wears short skirts (sometimes plaid), cheerleader, mean, bad in school, popular at school but only because she's pretty. we call those whores Good one!! hahaha, i seriously laughed at this one!! rofl Quote: SO YOU WANT TO KILL THAT STEREOTYPE!!!!! And maybe it's your english, but did I understand you right? Does this incline, that I want to kill that stereotype by not talking like a woman, or you're telling me to kill that stereotype? *SIGH* No i mean you want to talk like a women and kill the Stereotype that White north americans are monkeys in human bodies. I know i would want to kil any stereotypes (which in japan there are lot like northern women are beautiful [which they are becuase ainu women are noted in history for beauty]
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Posted: Wed Oct 04, 2006 8:42 am
Aiko_589 No i mean you want to talk like a women and kill the Stereotype that White north americans are monkeys in human bodies. I know i would want to kil any stereotypes (which in japan there are lot like northern women are beautiful [which they are becuase ainu women are noted in history for beauty] So North Americans are called monkeys in human bodies? To most it may concern, but not all people are like this. Just like in every country, there are smarter people and then there are the monkeys. But now I understand what you were saying.
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Posted: Sun Oct 08, 2006 12:40 pm
Can you please put in some furegana for the poor gaijin who cannot read the kanji???
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Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2006 3:05 pm
Clayra Aiko_589 No i mean you want to talk like a women and kill the Stereotype that White north americans are monkeys in human bodies. I know i would want to kil any stereotypes (which in japan there are lot like northern women are beautiful [which they are becuase ainu women are noted in history for beauty] So North Americans are called monkeys in human bodies? To most it may concern, but not all people are like this. Just like in every country, there are smarter people and then there are the monkeys. But now I understand what you were saying. Hmm... I don't mean to butt into this conversation, but yeah... I definatly understand where you're comign from about the monkey thing, but only for some people. No offence, but most "ghetto" and "hill billy" type people can act awfully apeish at times, but that's not the whole of America. A lot of people I know are very kind, mannerly, and civilized. I know Japan tends to be much more polite, but that's their culture. America is a mix of many cultures, so it can range from very impolite people/cultures, to very proper, strict, and polite people/cultures. I'm just saying that people should not stereotype over one kind of person. Not all Japanese are polite, but at the same time, many are. Not all Americans are rude, but at the same time, many are. I don't think we ALL act like monkeys though... Too bad those few monkey people ruined America's image. = I definatly would like to help change that perception in Japanese people's minds, if I ever do go to Japan. I try to be a very polite person. =)
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Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:48 pm
Also, you will want to use the ~ないで Form more often, whereas men will often use ~な Form in impolite speech:
あたしに話さないで
Dont talk to me
Guy:
俺に話すな
But since men will often need to be polite as well, this also boils down to:
俺に話さないで
And when women need to be rude:
あんた来るな (来んな)
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Posted: Sat Oct 28, 2006 1:49 pm
Aiko_589 Also, you will want to use the ~ないで Form more often, whereas men will often use ~な Form in impolite speech: あたしに話さないで Dont talk to me Guy: 俺に話すな But since men will often need to be polite as well, this also boils down to: 俺に話さないで And when women need to be rude: あんた来るな (来んな) this example sounds like the woman is yelling or whoever she is talking to is animal
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Posted: Sun Oct 29, 2006 9:00 am
I should also mention particle わね
Its pretty much よね
いろいろあるわね
There are many types right?
And のよ
This is simply の + よ And is just a more feminine way of making a powered statement
じゃあ、どうすればいいのよ
Well, whats is the correct way then?(!)
The male version is んだよ (Remeber の Is contraction of のだ And んだ is also. neither are more girly or boyish, it is only that in colloquially speech men will say んだ Or in polite んです (The latter women do as well) Wheareas women say のです Or の More.
So lets plug in the male:
なんかね 俺の妹、ここに来たんだよ。
you know, my sister came here.
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Posted: Thu Nov 02, 2006 6:40 pm
That's really cool to hear.
I wondered what the differences other then things like watashi and boku were in the language. ^.^ Thank you very much for the information.
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Posted: Thu Nov 02, 2006 7:06 pm
YOU SHOULD NOTE THOUGH, THAT わ IS NOT USE DMUCH ANYMORE, SAVE FOR ON TV!!!!!!!!!!!! PERCISEY WHY YU SHOULD NOT LEARN FROM TV (わよ and わね ARE USED EVEN LESS!)
SO DONT USE THOSE ONE OK? EXCEPT MAYBE OCCASIONLY AFTER じゃない (VERY OCCASIONALY)
ALSO FEMININE PARTICLES I MAY NOT HAVE INCLUDED:
もん こと
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 3:03 pm
Thank you very much, this is a great help for those who don't want to seem so brute like when speaking to pen pals.
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 3:10 pm
Hmm, I've heard a lot of these before...but I don't know how to use them. gonk For instance, can't の be used as a more womanly version of か? And am I right in thinking that ね can just be added to the end of a sentence to make it girlier?
Also, for anyone who didn't get Aiko's point about Americans- she's not necessarily saying that all Americans are dumb. She's saying that it's a Japanese stereotype that all Americans are dumb. As such, Japanese people generally WON'T expect an American to know the customs. So you should LEARN the customs and speak properly and naturally, so that people WON'T think you're just another dumb American.
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 7:01 pm
Oh great. My textbook tells me to say "wa yo" and "wa ne" but it's not even used often anymore? Now I am confused as to how I should speak. :
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Posted: Fri Jan 12, 2007 10:53 am
my computer can't display any of the kana but i'd still love learn the words.. if someone has time to put them in romaji, please...
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 9:40 am
I speak Spanish so I am used to having to say things differently than men. Thank you for this, I need to learn how to speak like a woman in order to not disrespect anyone.
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