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ah this is annoying me, about 2 months ago i met this girl for the second time. I know she's gay and she knows i'm bi. We met once before at a party where we were really drunk and started making out. Anyway the second time i saw her she ame to a friends sleep over after we all went to this local concert thing, we talk all night and didn't sleep once. She played with my hair and we became really close. Close to morning she kissed me and i kissed back, we became closer after that. I haven't seen her since but i talk to her alot, it's annoying cause a) she live like 40 minutes away b)she has glandular fever and c) she told me that i might as well move on cause i can't see her. But i can't do that and it's really annoying, i tell her i love her all the time but sometimes she laughs and goes 'sure you do'. I can't stop thinking about her, sometimes it drives me crazy becasue i can't sleep. Then i'll call her and listen to her speak and i smile then soon enough drift off to sleep. But latly the conversation isn't really going anywhere and she's always down cause she's sick and can't really leave the house. It also doesn't help that my mum is very homophobic but only towards me. Ah it's driving me crazy!

Well one long-distance is really hard to support, I know by first-hand experience and it didn't work...but what it sounds like to me,it truly isn't love from all the fun and excitement from your previous encounters with her. The events got your blood pumping and getting with her and making out topped it off. I think she either identifies it too,doesn't like you like that, or she just likes random hook ups.

Kinda, sounds to me like she lost interest over time...Give her a little space let her heal up and then come to you, I had a girl in the same situation..Sometimes you have to cut your losses and move on.