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 Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 2:13 pm
For the past couple of weeks, whenever me and my boyfriend have sex it starts off okay. But, since we were both virgins before we met each other, we're still learning and sometimes in the middle of sex his penis slips out of me. And 99% of the time, while he's going to put it back in, he loses his boner and can't get his erection back, it doesn't matter how long he thinks sexy thoughts for or how long we preform foreplay, so we have to quit. He and I are both worried that something might be wrong, would anyone have any clue as to why this is happening?
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Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 5:18 pm
I'm pretty sure it's normal. It's probably a psychological thing like "omg, I'm a loser for poping out" *deflate*
I think you should talk with him and tell him it's perfectly normal for the p***s to pop out every now and then.
If the problem persists, you can always look at getting him looked at for erectile dysfunction, but I don't think he'd have it.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 5:26 am
I agree with Yukito. It is normal to slip out sometimes. The loss of erection issue may very well be psychological. Then the more you two worry about it and wonder if something might be wrong, the more likely he is to not get the erection back. When he loses it, you might want to just stop. If you two keep trying to fool around and think sexy thoughts to get it back, then he might be feeling some pressure. Maybe if you just stop and try agian later, he will not feel that pressure to perform that might make maintaining an erection difficult.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 2:08 pm
It's normal, I've had it happen before with my boyfriend and I. As others have suggested, it's probably psychological, and him worrying/stressing out about it won't help matters either.
The next time he slips out, get him to guide himself back into you and keep going like nothing happened. It's not something worth making a big deal about.
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Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2006 4:21 pm
My guy and I have this problem a lot. Don't let him think about it so much. As always, communication is key. Let him know that everything is still good and just kiss and guide him back in. It takes a while, but the fear of being embarassed will subside, I promise.
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Posted: Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:37 am
Hes probably embarrassed and gets self conscience about his ability to perform.
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Posted: Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:09 pm
Elven_hime Hes probably embarrassed and gets self conscience about his ability to perform. welcome to my world lol
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