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 Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 4:48 pm
I was in the Slots and told female players 1 & 2: "you're cute smile nice hair" and the one whom I had not said anything to remarked:
"You're a girl. You just said that to another girl."
Now herein lies the first problem. Can I not say that to another girl without it being thought of as a pickup line? It's called a compliment, as I told her.
"You're lesbian."
"Bi."
"Oh. Well don't hit on me, I'm straight." Note; this is the girl to whom I said nothing.
"Don't worry, I wasn't gonna."
This hurt my feelings. I don't know why exactly because it wasn't anything black-and-white "mean" but it made me feel like a freak. The thing was, I wasn't hitting on anyone to begin with but it somehow got there. I dunno, maybe I'm just oversensative because of the surgery...
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Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 7:14 pm
It would have probably made me feel bad too. But try not to worry about it. There will be people out there like that. (huggles you)
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 7:15 am
Some people just don't have the maturity to understand the difference between compliments and flirting. I wouldn't worry about it.
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Posted: Wed Sep 20, 2006 8:50 am
Thanks you guys smile
I'm glad I can come here and dependably find good people!
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