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Kikonami

PostPosted: Mon Aug 28, 2006 2:20 pm


My best friends, lets call then Jen and kelly for privacy, dont know im bi. Kelly is the kind of person who it probably wouldnt affect if she wasnt good friends with Jen. Jen is extremly homophobic and simply will not take it. She has let all of us know where she stand on the issue of homosexuality in america, but i really feel the need to tell her... what do yall think i should do?
PostPosted: Mon Aug 28, 2006 3:51 pm


I think you should, if they're good enough friends they won't care..
and Kelly needs to get her own mind, no offense.. If Jen doesn't want to be your friend because of it it's her loss, in my opinion.

Sam-034


cloakedinshadows

PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 6:57 am


Sam-034
I think you should, if they're good enough friends they won't care..
and Kelly needs to get her own mind, no offense.. If Jen doesn't want to be your friend because of it it's her loss, in my opinion.


I agree. Also, you seem ready to tell them and while the consequences may not be to your liking, it will be her loss and it's best to be hoenst in a friendship?? Maybe she will react differently because it is you, her friend, who is bisexual, especially considering she is your best friend.

Ah, and I'm not saying you're lying by not telling them, just that it's being more open with them which is usually a good thing.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 17, 2006 3:32 pm



    That depends on what you want from both of them
    If you're ok with not having them as friends anymore, you need to fulfill the need you feel to tell them,
    but,
    If you want them to stay friends, I'm afraid you'll have to either decide whether or not they would actually ditch you and whether or not you're going to tell them
    If you're sure they will ditch you, do not tell them
    If you're sure they won't, tell them
    If you're not sure... You'll have to make the choice...

Dark Eagle Babe

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