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I really don't know what to do... this guy is damn near on the verge of freaking me out!! My boyfriend met him at his old job a few months ago but ever since about a month after meeting him he started lying... and he is really, REALLY bad at it. Like he swears he has this band the 'Laoded Gunz', and he was trying to get me and my friends to do work with him and the band but the day of the work he'd make excuses or say 'oh, I didn't thinkyou guys would want to work' after we told him sure.
One day he told us that that night he was flying to Las Vegas, playing a show, then hoping on plane to get home for work by 6am, he sent us texts that night saying that his band has just been signed by Hard Rock Cafe and the night they got signed his show just so happened to be private a show for Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Kiera Knightly and Lindsay Lohan and her group of famous friends. First, he had a camera phone! He's exchanged pics with my boyfriend over thier cells before but when we asked him to get a pic of Johnny or anyone else he suddenly stopped messaging us and the next day when we saw him he said was too busy to get a pic or autograph even though he swore he hung out with Johnny and Lindsay after the show and talked fora bit. No single, horny, ugly 26 year old guy would pass up the op for a pic with Lindsay Lohan because for some odd reason they all find her hot. And I checked tabloid sites Lindsay was in LA that night, Johnny and Orlando were too causethe premire of Pirates was coming up.
And his band, they are saposed to have a website, it doesn't exist, I searched. And the latest job he was offering me, which I turned down, was for his company I've heard soo much about. Well anyway he's been talking about this company for months and he told us all these great things the company has done, like a party in SF for 4th of July with fireworks and another big event at gay pride in SF, he said he made a few thousand dollars from each but when he asked to hire me he sent a letter on myspace saying his employees wouldn't get paided for a while cause the company is just starting up...if it's just starting how did he manage to do pride and the 4th party? But now the day after the job offer all of a sudden he sends out a message saying he is considering selling his company, I bet his 'company' will be 'sold' in a few days because one of my friends took a real intrest in the 'job offer' he got rolleyes ....and now he is creating more imaginary scenes and friends!!
Like this guy who is saposed to be his best friend ever was texting him all day the day of the Bone Bash concert but when we got there his friends didn't want to talk to him all of a sudden so we told him sop texting and just call but he'd say 'oh, they don't want me too' so my boyfriend, cathcing on to his lie, said fine we'll walk all over and find them, next thing I see is our friend walking awaywith his phone to his ear, except the screen is lit up and I had the same phone a while back so I recognized the menu screen and knew he was faking the call... he came back and all ofa sudden his friends had found people whotraded thier front row tickets forhis 'friends' lawn tickets. First, whoin thier right mind would trade expensive front row seats for $10 lawn tickets!? All of a sudden his 'friend' now has a sister and 'she' is talking to me on myspace but her messages are written in the exact same style as his! He always send messages like 'just wanted to see what you were up to/doing right now. just wanted to know how things/life is with you? just wanted to see what you were doing later/tonight' and her message said 'hey, just wantedto know/see who my brothers friend hangs out/talks with and what his friends/people he likes are like. hope im not bugging/annoying you' so unless she learned to think and type from him she's made up like alot of his 'friends' are. They always seem to conveniantly leave or have an emergency whenever we are saposed to meet them. So now that I got through typing all that(and thatsnot even the full story) I need to know what to do about this guy!? I don't want to be mean and just flat out say I know your lying but I hate liars! I don't want one for a friend! It's just he has soo many problems in his life I don't want to make him feel crapy if I chew him out for lying, he's kind of emotionaly unstable, I don't want to deal with anyones breakdown, I'm no good at comforting people. Seriously! Me trying to comfort anyone other then my boyfriend fails miserabley! My plan right now is since he now has a second account on myspace thats saposed to be his friends sister is to trick him. I'm going to mention something to this 'girl' that only he would know about and if he takes the bait, witch I'm sure he will cause he has no clue I'm on to him, I'm going to tell him the gig is up, no denying it or playing the pity party game, he's been caught red handed. Think thats a good idea or should I let him continue to live in his fantasy and just keep playing along to make him feel beter about himself?

catch this person red handed...but do it with other people cuz he might kill you 0:

Once again. There's the boyfriend idea. *Points to her post* xd 3nodding blaugh

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I toyed with his mind all day yesterday cause I got so bored...I confused the hell out him because I was sending messages back and forth between the two accounts and switching up the subjects in each one so when one account started replying to a subject that only the other account could have replied to if in fact it had been two diffrent people and the two accounts we're never on at the same time, one would sign off, the other would sign on and so on. Iwonder if he truely thinks no one is onto to his game.... or mabey he has MPD...that would be interesting. ONe of my moms friends swore she had it but she was a horrible faker, she said one personality was a little kid and she'd do this wierd voice and talk like she was 3 but I read a book called Sybil and from what I understoond of it you don't realize you have multiple personalitys so how could she have know? I was watching Fight Club yesterday and had this thought, what if he really thinks these people in his head exsist? That would be sooo wierd! He did say he goes to phyciatrist(sp?) each week but has never said why.