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 Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 10:03 am
Well two days ago me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time. Now we're both virgins and we used protection, But for some reason he couldn't get hard. We tryed everything ...well almost everything... and still nothing.
Can anyone care to explain to me what happend?
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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 11:19 am
Sounds like Erectile Disfunction. Probably induced by the fact that he was nervous. It's just one of those things that guys have to deal with.
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 7:51 am
I would get him to see a doctor. If it is erectile dysfunction, the doctor will be able to diagnose it properly and may be able to give you tips or a perscription on how to reduce the problem.
It could have also been that there wasn't enough blood flow, or he wasn't turned on or that there was something distracting him.
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 12:48 pm
I had the same problem with my ex when we were having sex for the first time (we were both virgins). It could've also been performance anxiety, he could've been nervous, tired or stressed, etc. Relaxation is key.
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 10:08 pm
Thanks everyone for your help. Hopefully next time we won't have this problem.
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Posted: Sat Aug 26, 2006 6:23 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:26 pm
More than likely it was becasue of what they had already said. Losing your virginity is a big deal to a guy, and he was probably much more worried about keeping calm and relaxing and "doing it" right, and not looknig stupid, and pretty much just stressing about everything in his mind he forgot what he was doing.
Performace anxiety, yes.
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Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 6:45 pm
My guy has ED but we try to do ur best to make love without thinking about it. It stills feels good even if we don't get off. This seems weird to our friends but we don't climax every time we have sex. He wants to see a doctor about it but he lives with his brother and his brother's best friend so you can see why he would be weary of trying to keep something like this secret from them. So for now we deal with it but believe me over time it improves but have him try his best to see a doctor. I know it must bother him and this can be a real mood killer.
Best wishes!
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Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 4:02 pm
Well if he was a virgin also he was probably just nervous. No
need to worry. You should just try some foreplay beforehand
next time and hopefully you guys will have more luck...
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Posted: Mon Sep 18, 2006 5:00 pm
samething happened to me. i was just so nervous and worried about stuff it never stayed hard redface but it got better the next time
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