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 Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 11:17 pm
Okay i'm bi, and this girl who likes me is gay. I've only been out with guys but i really like her as well. she asked me out once and i said no cause i was to scared...i don't know if it would work, i mena i really really like her and she's great and everything but i don't want to mess it up.
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 11:30 am
What would be worse? Knowing that you COULD have something special, but being too scared to find out, or taking a chance and maybe finding out how happy you two can be together?
Carpe diem! Seize the day!
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 12:43 pm
goodJinxie Carpe diem! Seize the day! *seizes the day by the throat and strangles it then looks around* eek Anyways, what could you mess up? who cares if she's lesbian and you're bi.. I'm bi and I had... gonk ... a gay boyfriend.. It doesn't really matter, as long as you like each other.
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 2:01 pm
goodJinxie What would be worse? Knowing that you COULD have something special, but being too scared to find out, or taking a chance and maybe finding out how happy you two can be together? Carpe diem! Seize the day! I agree. Everyday I'm glad that I took the chance of asking out my ex, true she broke my heart, but, we had fun while we were together. In order to find what you like, sometimes you just have to be scared.
Go for it. Who cares what people say. Love is love. Period. ^^
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 8:00 am
yup yup, I had only known Jamie (Fawn boy) for about an hour befor he asked me out,I was scared that he was lieing and that As soon as I said yes he was going to tell me it was prank, but I said yes.And now, I couldnt be more happy, he is everything to me and my eyes ablsolutly perfect 3nodding heart So take a chance you find the person of your dreams 4laugh
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 5:17 pm
Part of getting into a relationship is taking that chance to wind up with a broken heart, but believe me, it's worth it. She obviously likes you because she asked you out and you said that you really like her too, so why not go for it? Switching to the other side might be hard at first, but it's a good experience. Don't be afraid, you can do it! 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:44 pm
as nike says. just do it. take the chance it will be worth it later i promise
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Posted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 6:08 pm
hmmm well she comes back from her holiday soon, she says that she's been thinking of me all the time and stuff. Hopfully tonight we'll be able to talk over the phone because i'm missing her so much!. If she does ask again i'll say yes, in life you should take chances not run from them...i guess if i kept doing that then i'll have a very boring and lonley life. Ah but i have another problem, if we did start going out i don't know how i could tell my parents...my mum is really homophobic but only towards me, she's told me since i was little to ONLY like guys, my dad would be okay i guess. I would always joke with my mum about being bi but her reaction was good enough to shut me up...
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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 12:30 pm
As goodJinxie said, carpe diem!
^_^
My philosophy on life is sieze the moment, cause tomorrow you might be dead.
...Ok, so it's a bit odd...
BUT STILL!
If ya like her, I say take a chance! I'm bi myself, and my first girlfriend was a lesbian. I know how you feel bout afraid that you're gonna mess it up. Believe me, I've been there.
But in the end, it'll be worth it to take a chance. ^^
Hope I helped ya in some way. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 8:00 pm
you've all helpped alot, thanks *smiles* i know i'll say yes if the question or right moment comes around. it's just my mum...she would be so annoyed *sighs*
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 12:50 am
forever_existing you've all helpped alot, thanks *smiles* i know i'll say yes if the question or right moment comes around. it's just my mum...she would be so annoyed *sighs* Good luck to you!!! ...and try not to worry about your mom too much.
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