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 Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 12:19 pm
NoSympathyForTheDead_x_ I dont really know what to say now. I think maybe the help I suggested would be the best idea if he has problems and home as well. Maybe he went to cybering to get away from his problems in the first place? I dont know. I think if he continues though itll stop thrilling him and he'll look for something to fill the gap. Something worse. Like I said, a sex addiction, or maybe something harmful or dangerous. No matter how together he may seem at the moment, people do weird things when they are trying to thrill seek. He's actually a very stable person and I know he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me. One of his ex-girlfriends started him with cybering back when he was depressed (he also went to councelling) and it just became addictive to him. And I hope to God almighty he doesn't do anything like you're saying gonk
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Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 12:39 pm
I dont think he will, if you help him out like you have been. Im sure with time and different ways of dealing with this problem, it'll get better.
Please though, if it becomes too stressful for YOU, you really should tell him he needs to stop. If he doesnt maybe its not the best situation for you to be in (as bad as that sounds).
I dont want to sound like Im budding into a place where people shouldnt be, I just really would like to see you and him over come this, so Im suggesting every possible thing I can imagine. If I say something you dont like tell me.
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Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 12:43 pm
NoSympathyForTheDead_x_ I dont think he will, if you help him out like you have been. Im sure with time and different ways of dealing with this problem, it'll get better. Please though, if it becomes too stressful for YOU, you really should tell him he needs to stop. If he doesnt maybe its not the best situation for you to be in (as bad as that sounds). I dont want to sound like Im budding into a place where people shouldnt be, I just really would like to see you and him over come this, so Im suggesting every possible thing I can imagine. If I say something you dont like tell me. For now, since it's not too much on me, I won't say anything, but if it does get me worked up more and more I will say something, as much as I don't want to. And I know what you mean (about the situation) But I don't think he'd do it behind my back, he's a very honest person and I know I can trust him. Thanks for trying to help though ^_^
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Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 12:45 pm
Dont thank me x] I like helping people.
Is there anything else ;o You want to talk about? Cause Im in the mood for a discussion xD
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Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 12:47 pm
NoSympathyForTheDead_x_ Dont thank me x] I like helping people. Is there anything else ;o You want to talk about? Cause Im in the mood for a discussion xD lol Nothing that really comes to mind, but if you have AIM I'll PM you my name (I don't like having it so everyone can see ^^ wink
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Posted: Fri Aug 11, 2006 12:51 pm
I have aim and msn, so go for it x]
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