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 Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 10:52 am
My cousin Andrea is 18. She is dating this guy who I think is very overaged. He is like 21. They have gone out late at night, done drugs, grafffitied, and stolen. I am very worried she will get hurt. He even slapped me when I tried to talk to him. I talked to my Aunt and Uncle but they said she doesn't listen. I need some help because me and my friends are going to throw her a party for her birthday. But does she deserve it after she had drugs, and stolen?
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Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 6:37 pm
Okay, well, I think your gonna need to talk to her about it and tell her your very worried. You should go to the police if it doesn't stop, and I know it would be very difficult, but it would be for the best hon. I do know what it's like to see someone go through this, and you don't even have to report her, just her boyfriend if you want, but if he hit's you than he likely is abusing her as well if she doesn't do what she's told. It could be the reason she's getting in to this trouble. Many girls don't realize just what their boyfriends might be doing to them when they are a jerk to her.
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Posted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 7:50 am
i think it is her own decision and u shud let it lay. she will prolly get hurt, and that'll snap her out of it. if u cant get through to her anyways, i think u shud wait it out, and if she ever comes to u asking help u shud be ready to give it then. there is a drug that can give u a "bad high" it will give u nightmaric hallucinations and if she experiences this once, it will make her want to get off drugs completely. trust her with her own life and it will end okay. thats all i can say for now i suppose...
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