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 Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 6:07 pm
I'm 22. My girlfriend wants me to stop talking to every girl who is under 17 who I don't know IRL.
Girl 2 (14): from a different continent than myself, has cancer. She's dying. GF will get upset if I don't stop talking to CG. Does the "husbands, sacrifice yourselves for your wives" thing carry over to pre-married couples, does it follow under "love your neighbor as yourself" and which of the two is more worthy of my bending to their will?
CG will be dead soon enough, but I told GF I'd stop talking to her, so if I don't I'll have broken my word. "Simply let your yes be yes and your no, no."
I'm all confuzzled. It hurts to have to hurt CG so deeply (she threw away her virginity earlier today 'cause my opinion of her as a person was the only thing keeping her from loosing it and I'm apparently the hinge-pin of her feeling good about herself), but I don't want to keep hurting GF.
Advices, please.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 6:54 pm
Oo......ooooo perdicament, I think you should tell her that talking to people isn't wrong...DUH........and you should talk to CG because you can confort her in her time of dire need, you may be the only friend she'll have before she leaves this world, and try to make sure your GF is kept in check, because what she said was COMPLETELY over controled, she has NO right to say you can't TALK to certain people, it's inhuman and tis unbibilcal, for the Lord says in his word, that BONDAGE (which is what a controlling relationship is, this is what I get from your post, that it's a cotrol problem) BONDAGE is WRONG, so...answer question?
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Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2006 3:27 am
Why at all would talking to sickly girls who need help be wrong?
Have you explained the situation about a dying girl to her? She has to understand, or else she's completely wrong!
1 Corinthians 8:3
But the person who loves God is the one God knows and cares for.
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 3:06 pm
Woah.. uhm... does she get that abandoning your friend while she's dying would be a really really mean thing to do?;;;;;
I think you should keep talking to your friend, your GF will probably grow up some time and forgive you when she realizes that age and gender shouldn't stop people from being friends.
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 4:02 pm
you dont wanna break the little girl's heart[: wait. i shouldnt really be calling her little but she might not die if u pray for her. if u just leave her you will give her less chance of surviving her cancer.
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 9:42 pm
You girlfriend is emotionally controlling, jealous and border-line abusive. Confront her about her actions before they get worse.
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Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 4:08 pm
Cometh The Inquisitor You girlfriend is emotionally controlling, jealous and border-line abusive. Confront her about her actions before they get worse. I might have to agree. Learn what love is. 1 corinthians 13:4-7 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. If she is jealous, she does not truely love you. Why are you messing around like that. But if what you say is true, and you're there to encourage the other girl whos in need, then your GF needs to figure some things out. Love doesn't hoard, be jealous, or be possessive. She must feel insecure about your relationship to be jealous, and that might be the case.
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Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2006 9:37 pm
Chronowatcher Learn what love is. 1 corinthians 13:4-7 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. If she is jealous, she does not truely love you. Why are you messing around like that. But if what you say is true, and you're there to encourage the other girl whos in need, then your GF needs to figure some things out. Love doesn't hoard, be jealous, or be possessive. She must feel insecure about your relationship to be jealous, and that might be the case. That's a little harsh. I mean, no one is perfect, but people can change, especially when their faults are brought up by someone they care about.
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Posted: Thu Sep 14, 2006 11:53 pm
Firslty, is there a back story to why she doesnt want you to talk to cmputer girls? Like maybe a history of you getting caught cybering? (i dont mean to drag you down or anything... sorry)
Secondly, if i was in you position i would make my stand, if she truely loved you she'd understand. and if not... well sorry dude, you might be solo.
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