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 Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 2:57 pm
okay so i had this teacher in 7th grade and he was the coolest guy ever, we became really close friends and i could tlak to him about everything and and out and stuff and he was really cool about everything. when i was in my freshman year of highschool i found out that he had come out and was fired from the catholic school he was teaching at for it. i had no problem with him being gay because i am not a homophobe but i was really upset that he was now shunned from most of society. but anyway the reason i am asking for help is because for the past month he has been in everone of my dreams. i don't know if it is because i feel bad that he got fired or that i miss just hanging out with him. could someone tell me what this means?
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 3:58 pm
well it might be that you feel for him because he was gay and the "church" (oh how i hate how homophobic they are) got rid of him because of that. or that now that you heard this you miss him and wish things didn't turn out the way they did =/
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 5:32 pm
Sounds like he was kinda of like a brother or someone older that you could look up too. And most likely the reason why he's in your dreams is because he's on your mind due to you worrying about him and people are treating him now that he came out.
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Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 8:11 pm
thanks alot you guys are the best. it makes alot more sence now, i have been trying to track him down to talk to him but he has gone underground since, and he ignores my emails, i hope he doesn't think that i don't like him now or is embarrased.
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 2:59 pm
my guess is the reason that you think about him {or dream w/e} is because it's hard to see anyone that you're close to {friends family ect} suffer. but, with being gay/bi a person has to kinda get used to being shuned and not being accepted. yes it may suck, but life is a b***h. but, yeah, my guess is still that it hurts you to see it happen to him.
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