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 Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 10:01 pm
ok im not usally on to need advice but yeah...
ok so im 14 and i came out to a few frends mom and my bro not dad... hed beat me... but onto the topic...
theres this guy on gaia i like alot hes really really cute everytime i see his picture i melt!! he likes me to and we often cuddle in -->* <-- and we even did somethin naughty in pms one time but also not the point also lol redface . so it seems like he really dosent like me back an hes just being nice i dont wanna tell his name couse hes not comfortable with people knowing it yet... and im scared couse looking at him reminds me of the other boy who just wants sex ((dry sex not the real thing)) and then hes mean to me like in the next 10 minutes..
so i guess my question is what are the things i look for to see if he really likes me or if hes just being nice for the sex?
((none of my freinds were online so i had to vent on here forgive me if it annoys you >_<))
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Posted: Tue Jul 18, 2006 10:11 pm
and also added to that..
theres this girl who actuallly live by me and she likes me alot... i dont know who to choose...i feel it would be wrong to long boh of them at the same time... if im going out with the girl i cant still make loveydovey with the guy right!!??my freind said that it would be ok to like the girl and the guy at the same time but if i go out with one i cant like the other.. i hate to sound like a basterd but they wouldent know if went out with both of them at the same time... ((god thats terrible...))
any advice is appreciated
also im bi sexual i forgot to say that..
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Posted: Thu Jul 20, 2006 11:28 pm
bump.... ill take any advice.....
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Posted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 6:20 pm
I would chose the girl that lives close to you. But that's me.
This guy on gaia, could be lieing about alot of things and trying to take advantage of you since you are 14. I've been in you're shoes buddy.
Plus, there's no deff way of knowing that a person likes you.
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 8:37 am
That's right, doesn't exist a way you could know that....
but (why always has to be one but.....anyway) If you want a real advise from a Psychologist I could tell you, that even if you got a person in your life to love, the human nature it's to simple to can dislike anyone else in the world...maybe it doesn't sound good but it's the truth....
In addition of that I can assure to you that it's really normal to like a lot of people at the same time, and If you wanna know who you like more....just sit, calm down and think....with whom I feel better or which of them I take as a special person and if you really feel something special for that one or not.....
Now if you go with the girl and that obviously make you doubt about if you leave or not the loveydovey things with the guy....just think....Do you would like to know that you boyfriend or girlfriend do such things??...and that your answer..... for most people it's wrong, for others isn't, the real way to know the difference of right and wrong things, sometimes isn't clear, but.... the right things make you feel great AND make others feel great with you.....
And for the things you look for to see if some one likes you or it's only sex..... You will notice that the most important things are the most simples and the details will make you know the difference.....
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