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thank you all for understanding though. i am allowed to share a snippet of what happened.
our uncle was killed in a car crash. now growing up, he was the world to us, but mostly patti. she adored him. he spoiled us beyond belief. he made us laugh and was just a very special person to us. we heard friday morning that he was in a car wreck, we didn't know any details at that point. but later in the day we recieved telephone calls from realitives and the hospital at one point. what i understand to have happened was his car was hit from behind which made it swerve. making it go off a clif. they said his face wasn't recognizable. because of impact.
So you can imagine, she is really having a hard time with this. i am too! and another bad part is we are not able to go to the funeral, which will be held today. it's going to be a closed casket.
i told her what you said mimsis_setsuai about the in reply to everything thread. she started crying she thought you all would be mad at her and didnt plan on coming back because of it. but weas relived to hear what you said. she loves you guys too. and will be back
like i said i'll keep you guys posted on the situation.

eek

Wow, my condolences.