Yeah, but we all have a balance, and some are different then others. For example, I've heard of some one who has to masterbate(sp) 15 times just to break even. So its kinda hard to judge people or even find a all around balance for everyone.
And with the men are gross thing. Yeah, once again starlock is the man( I really have no idea what gender he is now =/ ) when he says thats its all opinionated. But the media does affect many peoples opinion. For examle(man I need another transitional phrase), people in France think that hairy chicks( I'm not sexist, go to hell) are sexy.
