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it sounds as if u r unatracted to this particular man but u haven't said anything regarding feelings for other man... but if those r non existant then i would sayyes u r lesbian... other wise if u do kinds like guys then ur bi

I sort went through that. And I'm still kind going through that. But that my own fault. I consider myself bi. But apparentally, some pieces are missing. In your case however, one guy doesn't mean the rest of them. Not saying to go sleep around, just find another guy you are attrated to and through that you can find out. A physical attraction is not the only thing neccesary for a romantic relationship. As long as you are attracted to them, it counts. That's the way I look at it because that's how I consider it. I am attracted to guys, but I haven't had enough experiace with them physically to, I don't know really tellabout myself sometimes. That makes me second guess myself alot too if I'm lying to myself and others when I tell them I'm bi. It's strange, but I think you need to find your own deffinition for your sexual prefrence instead of relying on, I odn't know, what is always said. You have to have had sex with the same sex to be condisered gay. You have to had sex with both sexes to be considered bi. I don't think so. What ever you feel to be more comfortable. You can live with yourself better that way. And romanticly, that's all that really matters.