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 Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 11:27 pm
I joined the army about 4 months ago and I finally graduated from AIT and from basic. In one more week I go home too see my fiance after not seeing her for 4 months. I"ve been faithfull to her this whole time and will stay faithfull till the day I die. I love her and I know she loves me. So my question is am I a fool to think she isn't ever going to cheat on me or can I really trust as i already do and know at this time of was when I go to iraq I can trust she isn't off with another man.
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 7:16 am
eek eek eek heart heart heart OMFG!!!!!! My Buddy is back. I missed you a lot heart Congratulations on Graduating AIT.
I think your Fiance will be faithful to you. Time away makes the heart grow fonder. I think that's how you say it redface
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 7:19 am
Lad,
I'm not Counselor or Love Doctor *Heaven knows I wish I was*, but if you asking this question at all, you obviously have a little doubt in you Trust in her. So the Question to ask is 'Why do you have this doubt in your trust'?
I can tell you from personally experience, that if you do not confront this doubt before you leave, it will fester and eat you away. Share with her your fear and talk to her calmly about what has caused you this doubt. Is it something that happens to a fellow mate, you've 'heard tales about it', maybe it's the way she dresses, acts or flirts. DO NOT expect her to change those things, at least not over nite, but if she knows about them calmly she will become aware of herself and those things around her.
I gave every GF I ever had my full trust. The one that caused it to waver was more a matter of the other guy setting out to 'get her'. The more I tried to stop it and 'control' what she did...the more she slipped away and I never saw it until it was too late.
I do hope that just talking to her will put these doubts to rest for you, Lad. But if not, do you best to put them aside until you get back and see with your own eyes, the truth.
Good luck in your current career, and remember to do what you know is right in all that you do.
Safe Return,
PhoenixFyre pirate
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Posted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 6:45 am
Well i am a fiance of a man in the army and he is away right now, yea im lonely but i love him that much to not worry about him messing around, and he knows i love him that much not to cheat on him! It just makes me love him extra more everyday and it makes it that much more special to see his face when he comes back..
crying GOD i miss him so much! crying
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Posted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 6:57 am
Angel Blue Eyes05 Well i am a fiance of a man in the army and he is away right now, yea im lonely but i love him that much to not worry about him messing around, and he knows i love him that much not to cheat on him! It just makes me love him extra more everyday and it makes it that much more special to see his face when he comes back.. crying GOD i miss him so much! crying I Know how you feel crying My Brother is away right now.
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Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 1:00 am
TUSHYNIPS Angel Blue Eyes05 Well i am a fiance of a man in the army and he is away right now, yea im lonely but i love him that much to not worry about him messing around, and he knows i love him that much not to cheat on him! It just makes me love him extra more everyday and it makes it that much more special to see his face when he comes back.. crying GOD i miss him so much! crying I Know how you feel crying My Brother is away right now. my dad has been gone my whole life!
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Posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 7:11 am
Angel Blue Eyes05 TUSHYNIPS Angel Blue Eyes05 Well i am a fiance of a man in the army and he is away right now, yea im lonely but i love him that much to not worry about him messing around, and he knows i love him that much not to cheat on him! It just makes me love him extra more everyday and it makes it that much more special to see his face when he comes back.. crying GOD i miss him so much! crying I Know how you feel crying My Brother is away right now. my dad has been gone my whole life! In the Service question That must suck. My Dad's never been around my whole life either.
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Posted: Thu Jul 06, 2006 4:53 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 4:50 pm
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