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 Posted: Wed Jan 24, 2007 8:47 pm
TifaBea I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and I still haven't had sex with him. I'm a virgin and so I'm kind of afraid... To lose it and other reasons. Also, he is a virgin. Any advice or anything?
1) Odds are that the first person you sleep with you will become infatuated with and eventually dump for the need of something new.
2) The older you are the more serious the relationship with your first time, so the likely break up is even harder.
3) People usually go through a sexual faze after they break up with their first, and the older your new partners are the more lilely you are to get an STD (since they've had more time to sleep with more people).
4) The older you are the more likely you are to get married, and if you haven't had much experience, you are very likely to get a husband that will become sexually unsatisfied, and may even pursue a mistress. A lot of divorces are from sexual dissatisfaction.
I just think if you found someone that you be with for that long, you may as well do it before you build it up so huge in your head that it becomes weird. Remember, sex is natural, and in most cases, inevitable. So relax. Enjoy it, but just be safe and smart. biggrin
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Posted: Fri Jan 26, 2007 4:15 pm
Dathu.... Your sense is not so keen my bed loving fellow. Its fine to be scared of sex your first time, and you don't have to go around and become a sex "goddess" just because Dathu here believes that it obviously leads to everything else. Peace treaty with Korea, what! Ah, if only Bush'd unclasp his pants...
My friend has a friend who is freaking out with moving in with her boyfriend of two years because she thinks its gonna mean sex and she (nor her boyfriend) have ever had sex before. Now... I think its neat that they've waited and that he can respect her body and her wishes and be with her just for her company, not her v****a. But she thinks that she needs to have sex with her ex in order to satisfy her boyfriend. Which is looney, really. If you're not good at sex, hopefully you have a kind and accepting partner who you can talk to about it, find out what you (or they) are doing wrong and fix it. A learning process. Theres more to sex (especially for girls) than just sticking tab A into slot B. Blah. Whoo! COFFEE!
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Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2007 12:25 pm
PickleBoy Theres more to sex (especially for girls) than just sticking tab A into slot B. Blah. There is?? whoa... what is this "more" you speak of?
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Posted: Sat Feb 10, 2007 8:08 pm
Anonymouz PickleBoy Theres more to sex (especially for girls) than just sticking tab A into slot B. Blah. There is?? whoa... what is this "more" you speak of? =3 Oh, you're so silly.
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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 8:54 am
Anonymouz PickleBoy Theres more to sex (especially for girls) than just sticking tab A into slot B. Blah. There is?? whoa... what is this "more" you speak of? He could mean a special bond two can share.....or Heh, hopefully he means whipped cream and rope and candles and ice and and....hmm... Maybe I'm just depraved. I'll be good now. ::shuts up::
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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 11:37 pm
Anonymouz PickleBoy Theres more to sex (especially for girls) than just sticking tab A into slot B. Blah. There is?? whoa... what is this "more" you speak of? Hearts and candies and love poems and such. xp
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