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 Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 3:10 pm
I broke up with my girlfriend... or have rather been in the process of trying to downgrade from girlfriend to girl friend. And she stopped eating... she's being really stubborn and saying that I'm the only one she loves and that she wants to die without me.
I'm really upset because just because I don't love her doesn't mean I don't care... she's still very very very special to me. And I feel sick that she has no will to live anymore... it's all my fault... I'm completely guilty....
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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 6:47 pm
BakaTulip I broke up with my girlfriend... or have rather been in the process of trying to downgrade from girlfriend to girl friend. And she stopped eating... she's being really stubborn and saying that I'm the only one she loves and that she wants to die without me. I'm really upset because just because I don't love her doesn't mean I don't care... she's still very very very special to me. And I feel sick that she has no will to live anymore... it's all my fault... I'm completely guilty....
...thus ends the after-school special brought to you by SarahArden...
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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 9:11 pm
Sarah is right.. She has to get some help. I can understand that she'd be upset but it isnt your fault that she cant handle things well. Just make sure you tell her that you still care about her.. It'll be good that she knows that.
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:37 am
AkureiKnight Sarah is right.. She has to get some help. I can understand that she'd be upset but it isnt your fault that she cant handle things well. Just make sure you tell her that you still care about her.. It'll be good that she knows that. She's gotten a little better.
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Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 2:02 pm
Good. I hope that she continues to recover.
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Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 8:00 am
...everyone gets better...time heals the heart...she will get over it...in the mean time try to support her but not fall back in love
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Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 9:30 am
Denial is always a hard part of anything, it could be that shes just trying to get the denial that you two arnt going to be together.
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Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 11:49 am
I went thru denial for a while. So yeah I know how that is. She'll get over it.
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 5:59 am
AkureiKnight I went thru denial for a while. So yeah I know how that is. She'll get over it. Not without severe ammounts of difficulty, however. confused
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Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 9:16 pm
Kohki AkureiKnight I went thru denial for a while. So yeah I know how that is. She'll get over it. Not without severe ammounts of difficulty, however. confused
Ak had some problems when it happened to her but I was happy she leaned on me<3.
The best thing for your ex right now Baka is just to make sure she has someone to lean onto that can understand and talk to her.
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Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 1:41 pm
Kohki AkureiKnight I went thru denial for a while. So yeah I know how that is. She'll get over it. Not without severe ammounts of difficulty, however. confused well I didnt mean to sound cold. Yeah it will be very difficult but I think that Shmoo is right. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 6:23 am
I sent her an email while I was away and she wrote back tersely and rather snobbishly... I wonder if it was me or if she was just mad... cause all I asked was how she was and her reply was something of "Perfect. Peachy. Whatever."
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Posted: Mon Jul 03, 2006 11:30 am
Speaking from very recent experience, I think it would be good to give her a mix of proximity (if she needs you) and distance (so that she can slowly move on). I've been back and forth between happy and wanting to talk to my ex, to being angry, annoyed, or just trying to push away.
Asking how someone is can be such a double blade. It's like "Well, you know, had my heart ripped out. And you're asking me how I am when it's already quite clear...". Break ups are just ******** confusing.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 1:39 am
BakaTulip I broke up with my girlfriend... or have rather been in the process of trying to downgrade from girlfriend to girl friend. And she stopped eating... she's being really stubborn and saying that I'm the only one she loves and that she wants to die without me. I'm really upset because just because I don't love her doesn't mean I don't care... she's still very very very special to me. And I feel sick that she has no will to live anymore... it's all my fault... I'm completely guilty.... The want to die is in no way related to you. It's all about herself. She's not happy with the way things are going, things aren't turning out the way she planned. But either she'll learn to accept that you aren't together anymore, or she will die. Some people just need to do what they need to do. But this doesn't make it your fault. Chances are she wanted to die before she even met you. I'm really sorry to hear this dilema though. I hope she snaps out of it.
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:59 am
BakaTulip I broke up with my girlfriend... or have rather been in the process of trying to downgrade from girlfriend to girl friend. And she stopped eating... she's being really stubborn and saying that I'm the only one she loves and that she wants to die without me. I'm really upset because just because I don't love her doesn't mean I don't care... she's still very very very special to me. And I feel sick that she has no will to live anymore... it's all my fault... I'm completely guilty.... She need's help hun, it’s not your fault at all! She has dependency issues and needs to resolve them. Be a friend to her and help her maybe get to the meetings but try and slowly move away from her so that she will eventually become independent. It may be hard to see her going through this but if you loved her you'll help her seek help. Don’t give in to her wish’s its your life and you have a right to your own freedom don’t be hung up on her feelings which are false sentiments and not true. If she loved you she would let you be happy and this extreme reaction isn’t love hun its just dependency. I hope she gets some help for her sack and yours. If you ever need to talk just PM me or email me at Fighting.Wolv@GMail.com I'll always listen and give advice where i can. Peace and be safe Georgia
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