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Avenorell

PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 1:15 am


Yes, I'm thinking about coming out to my mom. But I have no clue how she'll react. She didn't care when I told her I was Wiccan... But she's a complicated person. I have a feeling she'll accept me, but I'm rather unsure of that.

I love my mom, and she loves me to. Whenever my dad gets mad at me, she calms him down and sticks up for me.

I just hope that if I do come out to her, that she won't freak out or tell my dad.
PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 7:22 am


Start by some question to kind of gauge it... like mention the Federal Marriage Ammendment vote a few weeks ago that failed. Ask her what she thinks about gay marriage or pick up on some recent gay news story and ask her opinion.

hazellazer
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Avenorell

PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 12:56 pm


Thanks, Tulip. Last night when I wasn't sleeping (I have insomnia) I thought about what else she said after I told her I was Wiccan. 'You may grow out of it' x.x;;
PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:21 am


Good luck with coming out <3
I think I'm going to stalk this thread if others post on it. ^^;;
I need to figure a way out to come out to my mother, too.

xGollyEmma


Avenorell

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 7:20 am


Well, she isn't my real mom, she's my step mom, but same difference. My real mom was a drug addict and a whore. *eats S'more pop tart* ^w^
PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:54 pm


Aw.
I am sorry.
*hugs*
Well, it was easier to come out to my father's girlfriend, especially since she's really accepting & close with her nephew, who's gay...
so it was easier.
But I'd like to come out to my mother & my father...but it'd be really hard.
v.v

xGollyEmma


Avenorell

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:40 pm


My dad is anti-anything he isn't.
PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 12:36 pm


Avenorell
My dad is anti-anything he isn't.


Ah, My "Dearest Father" is the exact same way. He's always bashing Liberals and Democrates 'cause he's a hardcore conservative (Ahem, Like the time he called me childish and Anti-God 'cause i'm a Liberal x.X wink . And i'm pretty sure if I weren't Jewish, he'd bash that, too. x.X;; So anyway, I know how that is. Oi.

Holy Roman Empire


Avenorell

PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:48 pm


I love my dad, but he's difficult.

I came out to my friend Dia! *cheers* She said she didn't care, that we're still friends no matter what the hell I am, even if I'm Barney the Purple Dionsaur (No, not really. Barney is creepy.)
PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 10:55 pm


Avenorell
I love my dad, but he's difficult.

I came out to my friend Dia! *cheers* She said she didn't care, that we're still friends no matter what the hell I am, even if I'm Barney the Purple Dionsaur (No, not really. Barney is creepy.)


Congratulations! That must've taken a lot of guts. I know it took me weeks to work up the courage to tell my friends, So kudos to you. :3

Holy Roman Empire


Avenorell

PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 11:12 pm


I came out to my sister already, it was a tear-filled night and I couldn't really explain myself right o.o;

Thanks ^^ I hope I can tell my mom, really, but I know the only way my dad will find out is going through my files or when I'm out of the house and stuff.
PostPosted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 5:37 am


A.Dream.Within.A.Dream.
Avenorell
My dad is anti-anything he isn't.


Ah, My "Dearest Father" is the exact same way. He's always bashing Liberals and Democrates 'cause he's a hardcore conservative (Ahem, Like the time he called me childish and Anti-God 'cause i'm a Liberal x.X wink . And i'm pretty sure if I weren't Jewish, he'd bash that, too. x.X;; So anyway, I know how that is. Oi.
My dad called me a Saddam Lover for being against the war in Iraq... but my dad is oddly becoming more liberal..

hazellazer
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