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 Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 12:28 am
Sorry I haven't been here, I've been in hiding from my real life problems.
I broke up with T, and have been dating my brother's best friend for almost a month. The problem? T refuses to accept it. He says he'll "never give up" on me. I keep trying to make it clear that I'm no longer interested.
I broke up with him because for the last two years our of our three year relationship, he made sure that he told me how stupid and worthless I was, and how great he was, and how lucky I was to have him. My friends saw this, and kept trying to pull me away from him, but it never worked. We both had a low-self-esteem and I finally realised that he raised his by putting me down. The worse I felt, the better he did. My relationship now is long distance (He lives with my brother, in an apartment across the country from where I live. He'll be coming to visit around early August and my 18th birthday. T tried to kiss me yesterday, when he spotted me while I was out with a friend. I feel good knowing I had no desire to kiss him, and no feelings for him anymore. But, I still have no idea how to get him to realise that I'm Y's girlfriend now.
Other than that, we got a new puppy...Well, I just showed up at home with her. Her name's Belle. We now have four pets, two dogs and two cats. Our other dog had an allergic reaction to something (No idea what) and her mouth had swelled up pretty good sized. We're glad she's better now, and that was quite a day.
Sorry about the huge story. sweatdrop I guess alot really did go on.
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 1:36 pm
Quote: But, I still have no idea how to get him to realise that I belong to Y now. I think you first need to realize that you don't "belong" to anyone. Also, if T is trying to kiss you/do anything to do and you've made it perfectly clear that you don't want to be with him, punch him. Honestly. He has no right to treat you like his property, when and after you were dating. What kind of dog is Belle? We recently got two new additions to our house, too [kittens]. n__n
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Posted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 3:33 pm
boombanda Quote: But, I still have no idea how to get him to realise that I belong to Y now. I think you first need to realize that you don't "belong" to anyone. Also, if T is trying to kiss you/do anything to do and you've made it perfectly clear that you don't want to be with him, punch him. Honestly. He has no right to treat you like his property, when and after you were dating. What kind of dog is Belle? We recently got two new additions to our house, too [kittens]. n__n I didn't mean it like that...Sorry if it sounded that way. I meant, that I'm his girlfriend now. I fixed it. Sorry, I typed it up in the middle of the night. T's just upset that I can like someone else. I thought about punching him, but I just reminded him that I have three big brothers who'd come get him for me at the drop of a hat. The people we got her from say she's an Australian Shepherd.
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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 3:45 pm
Heh... when i started reading your post i thought 'aww give the guy a chance' but by the end i felt like breaking some knees. whee Guys that try stuff on when they are told outright she doesnt want it really boils my blood. BrokenWing I thought about punching him, but I just reminded him that I have three big brothers who'd come get him for me at the drop of a hat. Thats a nice threat and it worked.. but i would definately advise never actually using it. If he does anything you dont like, get the cops involved.
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Posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 10:44 am
Oh no, I'd never use it, but he doesn't know that.
mrgreen
I keep my cellphone with me whenever I'm out of the house.
He was calling me obsessively the other night. I didn't answer.
For a while, I was afraid to sleep in my bedroom. His grandparents live down the street from me and my window points to the front yard.
Oi, paranoia's gone for now.
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