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Amaya Sanra de Fanel

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Posted: Sat Jun 17, 2006 9:21 pm

I am guilty of this. I have a close friend.. we've known eachother for about a year and a half now.. And I fell inlove. I didnt mean for it to happen (course I dont think you ance ever -mean- for it to happen) And one night I couldent hold it in any longer and I spilled out everything. And they said they didnt want to have a relationship because they didnt want to risk the friendship.

Has this happend to any of you?

got any advice about geting over it? sweatdrop

Posted: Sat Jun 17, 2006 10:31 pm

Ive had a preaty simmilar situation where we acttualy dated for a while. It involved a friend here on Gaia and yeah it can ruin a friendship or at least change it. Not saying two people who care for each other and are friends shouldn't ever try dating. Just its like any relation ship.
The only thing I can think of Amaya to help out is go out and do some stuff to take your mind off it and when things are better go back to being each others good friends. Cause at least you know you have that. :3

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Amaya Sanra de Fanel

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Posted: Sun Jun 18, 2006 9:21 am

Dko

Ive had a preaty simmilar situation where we acttualy dated for a while. It involved a friend here on Gaia and yeah it can ruin a friendship or at least change it. Not saying two people who care for each other and are friends shouldn't ever try dating. Just its like any relation ship.
The only thing I can think of Amaya to help out is go out and do some stuff to take your mind off it and when things are better go back to being each others good friends. Cause at least you know you have that. :3

*nod nod* were still good friends right now... its just everytime they mention likeing someone or goind on a date it stings a little bit sweatdrop

Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 3:25 am

eh...I know what it's like...
Thats pretty much whats happening with my best friend and me...
Except...we haven't really decided anything yet.... sweatdrop

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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 12:53 pm

well I can't say much the 1st person I told was my best friend and now is my boy friend and he's on this guild((I gess thats tmi)) well just do something to get it off your mind and if that don't work then it might be best to stop being neer them.

Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 1:39 pm

SOKGEN

well I can't say much the 1st person I told was my best friend and now is my boy friend and he's on this guild((I gess thats tmi)) well just do something to get it off your mind and if that don't work then it might be best to stop being neer them.

But I'm almost never near them.. they live about 4 hours away.. we only meet up maybe twice a year.. thats another reason why they dont want to give it a shot

Amaya Sanra de Fanel

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Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 9:46 pm

Amaya Sanra de Fanel

SOKGEN

well I can't say much the 1st person I told was my best friend and now is my boy friend and he's on this guild((I gess thats tmi)) well just do something to get it off your mind and if that don't work then it might be best to stop being neer them.

But I'm almost never near them.. they live about 4 hours away.. we only meet up maybe twice a year.. thats another reason why they dont want to give it a shot

then move on find new ppl or be alone for life

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