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 Posted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 2:03 pm
Ok, so I have this friend. We'll call him X.
I've been friends with X for .. say, 5 years? About that. And he's 12 right now, I'm 13.
This guy is a TOTAL PLAYA. He told me that he got a handjob before, and also had sex with 15 and 16 year old girls, because he said he was 15.
And let me tell you, X can DEFINITLY pass himself off as a 15 year old.
I think he drinks beer, too .. I don't think he smokes .. at least, not that I know of.
But for CHRIST SAKE, He's 12 years old!! gonk
What should I do? I don't want him going out and getting some girl pregnant or anything. He's not ready for a child! And because I'm his friend, I look out for him. Any tips?
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Posted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 10:36 am
Well, I'm not really sure what to do about that, but if it helps any, you could always just go and talk to him about how much he worries you... Maybe he's doing it for attention and when you talk to him, it'll stop him from doing it--even if it is only just a little... In any case, you need to tell him how worried you really are and personally, I don't think that a 12 yr. old should be doing any of those things--making out is one thing but sex?! He's barely hit puberty, if at all!
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:18 am
Please don't flame or judge me by this but I am well barely 13 yet.Well i am 13 in september yet i have had sex with a 14yearold.He was my boyfriend though.I can't help but think i'm older than i really am though plus people say i look 15.So i get away with it sometimes.I have also given head 10times now.
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Posted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 4:39 pm
I'd say talk to his parents. It doesn't sound like he's old enough to know better, and being sexually active at his age while having no idea what he's doing can lead to very real consequences down the line.
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Posted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:25 am
Ok, tha'ts just, wrong, sure it's ok to dream about it when you've just hit puberty, but do it, i say you should talk to him, really.
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 6:39 pm
Toxic Sludge Ok, so I have this friend. We'll call him X. I've been friends with X for .. say, 5 years? About that. And he's 12 right now, I'm 13. This guy is a TOTAL PLAYA. He told me that he got a handjob before, and also had sex with 15 and 16 year old girls, because he said he was 15. And let me tell you, X can DEFINITLY pass himself off as a 15 year old. I think he drinks beer, too .. I don't think he smokes .. at least, not that I know of. But for CHRIST SAKE, He's 12 years old!! gonk What should I do? I don't want him going out and getting some girl pregnant or anything. He's not ready for a child! And because I'm his friend, I look out for him. Any tips? kick him in the balls. i'm not kidding. he'll get the mesage loud and clear. he''l think about it everytime the thinks about chicks. (this is experiece talking)
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Posted: Thu Sep 21, 2006 11:10 pm
pimpstaalex Toxic Sludge Ok, so I have this friend. We'll call him X. I've been friends with X for .. say, 5 years? About that. And he's 12 right now, I'm 13. This guy is a TOTAL PLAYA. He told me that he got a handjob before, and also had sex with 15 and 16 year old girls, because he said he was 15. And let me tell you, X can DEFINITLY pass himself off as a 15 year old. I think he drinks beer, too .. I don't think he smokes .. at least, not that I know of. But for CHRIST SAKE, He's 12 years old!! gonk What should I do? I don't want him going out and getting some girl pregnant or anything. He's not ready for a child! And because I'm his friend, I look out for him. Any tips? kick him in the balls. i'm not kidding. he'll get the mesage loud and clear. he''l think about it everytime the thinks about chicks. (this is experiece talking) if you kick him hard enough he'll never be able to have kids... jk seriously, u said u are friends with him right? so just take him aside and talk to him. if that doesnt work talk to an adult
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 7:12 pm
Toxic Sludge Ok, so I have this friend. We'll call him X. I've been friends with X for .. say, 5 years? About that. And he's 12 right now, I'm 13. This guy is a TOTAL PLAYA. He told me that he got a handjob before, and also had sex with 15 and 16 year old girls, because he said he was 15. And let me tell you, X can DEFINITLY pass himself off as a 15 year old. I think he drinks beer, too .. I don't think he smokes .. at least, not that I know of. But for CHRIST SAKE, He's 12 years old!! gonk What should I do? I don't want him going out and getting some girl pregnant or anything. He's not ready for a child! And because I'm his friend, I look out for him. Any tips? Just tell him that he shouldn't do that kind of things, I mean, "he is onle 12 years old" if he don't want to take your advice you should stop hanging around with him, besides he could be a bad influence for you º_º [x . c o m p o s u r e ~]
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Posted: Fri Dec 08, 2006 11:07 pm
If you're his friend, you should be able to talk to him.
If you can't talk him OUT of things, you can help educate him so he doesn't make awful mistakes.
He may also be lying to impress you.
As sad as it is, I know this isn't all that unusual. A friend of mine had a little brother who was 12, smoked cigarettes, and even snorted meth. Geez. When I was 12 I thought NIN and Marilyn Manson were scary and depressing, and that french kissing was so COOOL.
Then again, I lost my virginity at 14. Go figure.
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Posted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 8:03 am
pin him down and smack him back into reality. jesus christ, this man has to know, he can get herpes, HIV, god knows what else STDs tell him you dont give a flying crap anymore and he can just go die cuz he's killing himself by doing that... tell him hes waaayyy too young... or tell his parents look at it like this... if you tell his parents, and they make him stop, he could hate you for life, but you just saved his.... ^.^
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 1:32 pm
ñaaaaaaaaaam
about being
sexually active
at his age...
well... sweatdrop
i can't say anything
about that... xp
but if he really
has no idea of
what he's doing
(wich is obvious)
& he doesn't
want to listen
to you, you should
do something
drastic... like
telling his parents
or something,
cause i mean
it's not only the
fact he's having
sex & drinking beer...
but he's having sex
with older girls
wich means more
risk of an
unwanted pregnancy
& that stuff...
that's all i can
think about...
hope it works 4laugh
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Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 4:07 pm
I think he is gonna do what he wants to do.
As a friend, you can only hope to guide him the right way.
If you think hes headed in the wrong direction fast, he needs help.
Its just drinking and sex though.
Hes going to do it. I did around that age.
Soo...
Tell him about STDs and Teen Pregnancy.
Tell him about condoms.
The importance of school.
The affects of Alcohol. The reason the drinking age is 21 is because a persons brain is not yet developed. He will stunt his own growth.
And Blah.
Do what you can to make sure he realizes what he is doing to himself.
I messed around all through middle school and almost didn't pass.
It wasn't until high school that I woke up and changed my life around.
You don't get a second chance at life. You have one shot to make life work for you. So he needs to get his ducks in a row and quit playing around.
To me, hes still just a baby and is only hurting himself.
I dunno. Lie if you have to.
Tell him he will get cancer.
haha.
No, I dunno.
Talk to the school counselor, see what they say.
If you feel it is necessary report his little butt.
Good luck.
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 3:47 pm
dang well i given hand jobs and blow jobs but to my 15 year old friend not 12 or any thing
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 4:18 pm
Well that happens here in Ireland, thought girls and boys often loose there virginity at that age. I remember a few years ago a 12 or 13 i think was going out with a 21. Full blown sex and all, it was very preverted and horrible but unfortunatly it happens a lot in ireland. Ireland is like a red lights district without paying for the sex
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2007 3:34 pm
Lol,thats weird and he might be lying, but i got something thats weird.
My m8 lost his virginity at 10,and i know thats extremely strange but its true,i'd trust him with my life lol.
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