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I am just wondering what you would say about this, I am currently in a long distance relationship and I honestly do love her. She is 17 about to be 18 and I am 17, we have known each other over 2 years and practically been dating for that time if you consider the first time you meet the person and had 'feelings' for her. I was away for the past year because I got myself into a little trouble. Well we have been I guess what you would call 'cybering' for a little over a month, we have only done it twice, but its amazing getting to see each others sexuality and personal likes and dislikes. Well were planning on meeting in the coming up summer if everything goes right and she is Jewish, I don't have any problem with that and I respect her for it, we have been talking about when we meet in real life (IRL) about what were going to do and things and then the question came up, when would we have sex? Well she said that she is wanting to wait until marriage, I don't have a problem with that and its going to be a challenge controlling my hormones. But honestly I don't think she will be able to wait until marriage, I think were going to be together a few weeks and go on a romantic date and were going to kiss and its going to go from there, but lets say that happens, should I go with it and have sex or bring up the fact that she wanted to wait until marriage. I know this might sound weird but I have never had these kinds of feelings towards anyone and I have just recently discovered how powerful my hormones really are. I would like advice from you or anyone for that matter on this subject, Thanks.