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PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 7:23 am


Well, I was with my bf a few days ago! The problem is that he was constantly rubbing agianst me and going down on me. I think all of this caused me to be very sore and itch. I am worried about the soreness and itching because, I have sensitive skin and i am very uncomfortable.
I feel like an idiot because i should have trimmed more or some of the hair down there. My bf also didn't tell me anything the whole time we where together. He could have told me i needed to trim or get rid or more hair since, he is more experienced.


Should i worry about this?

Should i be mad at him?

I am overreacting?

I am thinking about not making out at all now!
PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 7:59 am


i hav eno experience in all sexual stuff mostly, but i can tell you that communication is a large part of a relationship. if you feel as though you'd like his feedback on your body, then ask him next time. or even better ask him when you've got a free second, pull him aside and ask privately what he thought, and what you need to improve on. Being unexperienced, your still learning, yeah; but him being experienced, he needs to contribute his fair share.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 8:31 am


I have another question! Is it possible to get pregnant due to humping even if your hymen is in tact?
PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 10:01 am


talk to him. communication is very important in a relashionship

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 10:21 am


1. There is nothing wrong with having sex with hair. That's how nature intended it. So it's not like it was "his fault" for not informing you of a danger.

2. It was YOUR responsibility to let him know if he was being too rough or making you itchy. If you have sex with him again, bear this in mind. You don't have to just sit there and let him do whatever he wants. If it's making you uncomfortable, tell him.

3. Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from humping. The hymen is not a magical anti-pregnancy barrier. You NEED to use protection every single time you are sexual with another person.
PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 12:19 pm


Kukushka
1. There is nothing wrong with having sex with hair. That's how nature intended it. So it's not like it was "his fault" for not informing you of a danger.

2. It was YOUR responsibility to let him know if he was being too rough or making you itchy. If you have sex with him again, bear this in mind. You don't have to just sit there and let him do whatever he wants. If it's making you uncomfortable, tell him.

3. Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from humping. The hymen is not a magical anti-pregnancy barrier. You NEED to use protection every single time you are sexual with another person.


1) Kukushka's right. You can have hair, or you can be shaved, or have just a little hair, etc. It's your body. If you think your boyfriend might not like it, talk to him and see what he likes, and maybe you two can compromise if he likes something different than what you like.

2) You need to speak up if something is bothering you or if something's making you uncomfortable. If you can't speak up and communicate things like this to him, then maybe you shouldn't be having sex. It's hard to have a good relationship, a sexual one at that, if you can't even communicate to your partner when you don't like something, or when something is bothering you.

3) YES. Anytime sperm gets in your v****a, whether it be pre-c**, ejaculate on his fingers when he pentrates you with them, etc, you CAN get pregnant. If you're dry humping, wear layers of clothes (like not just undergarments), and/or use a condom. Going on birth control in preparation for actual intercourse would be a really good idea too.

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