Welcome to Gaia! ::

Reply Boy/Girl chat forum
I just need to let off some steam...

Quick Reply

Enter both words below, separated by a space:

Can't read the text? Click here

Submit

Suiseiten

Beloved Shapeshifter

PostPosted: Tue May 30, 2006 5:24 am


This is my first topic here, and I just feel flustered right now. Last night, I upset my boyfriend, but it was because of a comment that he made to me. I had problems with a cord used for one of his gaming systems and he freaked out, telling me that he didn't trust me. And that I was not to use his systems anymore. It hurt me to hear him say that he didn't trust me over something like that. While they are important to him, trust over everything is important to me.

I've determined that I acted irrationally because I eventually threw my game boy in his room and told him that I would no longer play it. I also threw my glasses and spent most of my time crying myself to sleep. My questions are:

Should I consider anger management? Why or why not?
Did I let it get to me too much?
How can I show him that I am sorry without being at his feet?
PostPosted: Wed May 31, 2006 12:00 pm


ketsuwaaijenai
This is my first topic here, and I just feel flustered right now. Last night, I upset my boyfriend, but it was because of a comment that he made to me. I had problems with a cord used for one of his gaming systems and he freaked out, telling me that he didn't trust me. And that I was not to use his systems anymore. It hurt me to hear him say that he didn't trust me over something like that. While they are important to him, trust over everything is important to me.

I've determined that I acted irrationally because I eventually threw my game boy in his room and told him that I would no longer play it. I also threw my glasses and spent most of my time crying myself to sleep. My questions are:

Should I consider anger management? Why or why not?
Did I let it get to me too much?
How can I show him that I am sorry without being at his feet?

Whether or not you overreacted depends on what exactly you did regarding the cord you mentioned.

In any case, sit down with him and tell him that you value his trust over anything. At least let him know that much, and how much it hurts you that he doesn't.

However, any further advice I give would depend on the nature of the cord accident.

Kaori Sakurazuka


tigger395

PostPosted: Tue Jun 06, 2006 11:16 pm


ketsuwaaijenai
This is my first topic here, and I just feel flustered right now. Last night, I upset my boyfriend, but it was because of a comment that he made to me. I had problems with a cord used for one of his gaming systems and he freaked out, telling me that he didn't trust me. And that I was not to use his systems anymore. It hurt me to hear him say that he didn't trust me over something like that. While they are important to him, trust over everything is important to me.

I've determined that I acted irrationally because I eventually threw my game boy in his room and told him that I would no longer play it. I also threw my glasses and spent most of my time crying myself to sleep. My questions are:

Should I consider anger management? Why or why not?
Did I let it get to me too much?
How can I show him that I am sorry without being at his feet?


Hey hey hey it was an accident.If he cares that much for his gaming system(more than he does you)then he has a problem.If he loves you ,he shouldn't get to'ed cuz of a stupid game.He should see that he overreacted.If he doesn't realize that,it doesn't mean he's not into you it just means he has an addiction problem to video ganes.Yall shouldn't let material things get in the way of yall's relationship.Don't get on your knees and beg him just say"babe about the other day you know I'm sorry and I don't want you to be mad"Don't totally b likee "i'm reeeeeeaaaaallyy sorry" and all beggy and s**t.Just make it nice and simple.Guys don't like thinghs to be tooo complicated or they'll get confused since they're brain is made out of an unknown substance>LOL rofl rofl rofl Personally,I say you did let it get to you
just a little too much.Hope I helped!!If you got any other questions just feel free to post.I was just wondering what you ladies would think about me putting up an advice column?????
much Love and advice,
Tigger395
PostPosted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 12:19 am


I know this is a very old topic but what the heck.
Just tell him so. If you catch the guy in a better mood, he'll just go" yeah sure, I know" and keep being nonchalant about it but he'll have forgiven you.

Karrobher
Crew

Hygienic Noob

2,900 Points
  • Fusion Novice 50
  • Alchemy Level 1 100
  • Hygienic 200
Reply
Boy/Girl chat forum

 
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get GCash
Offers
Get Items
More Items
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff
Gaia's Games
Mini-Games
Play with GCash
Play with Platinum