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 Posted: Sun May 14, 2006 2:34 pm
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Posted: Sun May 14, 2006 5:31 pm
Thank you very much for posting that. It helped me. I'll admit I've been ahving some issues similar to this lately. mad
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ConcreteAngel Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun May 14, 2006 7:08 pm
Wow, that was very interesting. Thanks to whoever that was. I don't have a problem so much but I can have random say dreams that tend to go that way, not to the extreme though. And while I have thought of what affect it might have and tried to prevent these thoughts, this has really made me think more indepth about it and I will most certainly try harder to avoid my thoughts ending up there.
I have advice for others. A way I have been avoiding/interrupting these thoughts when I get them is 1: Putting on an EFY CD 2: Thinking of a good song 3: Thinking of just plain fun times that Paladin and I have shared that I don't want those thoughts to ruin in anyway. As much as my imagination makes me think that all that future intimacy will be "all that" I much rather like the times we just hang out and goof off (ex: when we did dishes together and have a splash fight or smack each other with the towels, or playing on the jungle gym near my house, ect)
So, thats my 2 cents on this matter and thank you again to the person who wanted this posted
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Posted: Mon May 15, 2006 11:12 am
i had a problem very similar to this, but i'm over them now.. and quite happy. believe me repentance is awesome!
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Posted: Wed May 17, 2006 3:48 pm
Wow. I'm fighting those type of problems now... And now I realize even better if I don't get over it soon... thanx for that.
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 10:35 pm
That really hit the spot. I haven't done anything really bad, but I used to make out with my boyfriend, and even that has gotten me a bit desensitized lately, and getting me thinking about immoraility more and more. I just have to keep this in mind, and then things will get lots easier, because I still have 5 long years or so before I enter the temple, and it is hard!
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 7:01 am
LemonBooya That really hit the spot. I haven't done anything really bad, but I used to make out with my boyfriend, and even that has gotten me a bit desensitized lately, and getting me thinking about immoraility more and more. I just have to keep this in mind, and then things will get lots easier, because I still have 5 long years or so before I enter the temple, and it is hard!You can say that again...
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Posted: Sat Jul 08, 2006 9:45 pm
well I've had a talk similar to this with my boyfriend (he's a non member)but I was talking to him about how in a relationship you take certain steps such as holding hands, kissing goodnight etc. and then I started talking to him about the dreaded "I love you" issue I see with people everyday. where couples say it to eachother not because they really mean it but just out of habbit. and just thinking of that and how things would be I just don't really want that. If and when I (convert him to the church?) and get married to him, after a few years when it's all just a fond memory I don't want things to be like in the morning before he goes off to work, and peck on the lips a quick love ya and good bye. I want to have passion in my life. and thinking that maybe that's how all marriages will end up just really hurts. and I just really want him to instead of every night saying (over aim) *hugs and kisses* love ya. just out of pure repitition I want him to say *hugs and kisses* I love you. sleep well my love. as he's said a few times. I guess I just don't want to be desensitized to all the things I love about him. I really don't want him to be that way to me either. we've been going out for over 9 months now almost 10 and I know it's love and not infatuation! and I know that he is that one that I want to marry but at this point I'm too young to get married and all that stuff. (I'm 16 and he's 20) but he's talked to me about marriage too and it made me very excited to know that he felt the same way. but he wants to wait till he is out of college and I'm 18 so no one would have a problem. but that's 2 YEARS FROM NOW!! and I just feel like he's going to get bored of me and doing the same old thing every time we see eachother for the next two years and want somthing else. and then all these thoughts we've had will just go out the window and I'll be starting all over again.
but anyways I think I put a bit too much down here... sweatdrop but I guess that the person who wrote the message did what they wanted to do and make people think.
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