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 Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 8:07 am
I have a problem. A long drawn out horrible problem that causes me to cry myself to sleep at night. I am deeply attracted to three guys, and not one of them takes me seriously.
I don't know how to get them to take me seriously, do I sit them down and say "Hey I like you." But wait, I've done that one before. All it earned me were a few laughs. What do I do?
How come not a single one of them takes me seriously? I'm just really really confused and upset about this matter. Anyway, your thoughts on the matter?
For future reference, I am a guy also.
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 1:03 pm
Are they gay? If they're not gay then maybe that could be one of the reasons. Are they friends of yours? If so, do you pick with them alot? I know that with my friends, I pick with them by play flirting with them. Maybe they know how serious you are but maybe they're afraid to see the truth. Im not sure.
I've never been in this situation before. So I wouldn't really know what to tell you to make this any better for you. Maybe someone else will have some good advice for you. (hugs)
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 9:01 pm
Make sure they are gay or bi before you chase after them.
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 5:31 pm
The question is, are you a "serious" person? Do you break into giggle fits or break up giggle fits?--that sort of thing. Only you can know how to really get people to take you seriously and show them that you're not joking around...
And I agree, make sure that they're into what you're offering sexuality-wise....There's nothin as awkward as being hit on by someone who you thought thought of you as just a friend... sweatdrop
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