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 Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 8:24 am
Right, I am 14 years old, year 10 (english school smile )And my breasts are 32 D. In school its really annoying, All my guy mates tease me about it and can't keep a convo with me without staring at them and not my face.
Plus today I had pe, and I noticed in the mirrors how unblanced I looked.
I have not huge, but not tiny hips and large breasts, but a small middle.
But you can't see my small middle because my top pulls my shirt out making me look bigger than I am. And I hate it.
Back to the problem at hand though, It hurts when I do star jumps and press ups, I've looked around and I do have the biggest breasts in my pe class, maybe even year. So I can't really say to the teacher, please it hurts let me stop without getting everyone to stare...
I'm just tired of it, Its been like this since I was 13 and I need help.
I would of posted this in the normal life issues but you get so many flamers, I thought this guild would be a better place.
So please anytips on:
Clothes to make them look smaller or atleast make it so they can see I'm not fat.
dealing with creepy boys, I have spoken to my guy mates, they stopped for awhile but now they are doing it again.
Pe help, I already have a sports bra but still...
And anything else you can help me with.
Please I'm desperate I need help.
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Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 12:04 pm
I have the same problem, only my boobs are even bigger (36F) and I have that small waist and hips. I have that same unbalanced look. :XP:
With clothes...I know, you wear that shirt and it just drapes down the front... gonk If you can sew, or knows someone who can sew, take in the seams of the shirt near the waist area to make that area smaller and more fitted.
At my high school I was known by most of the guys as having "the biggest boobs in school" (which had over 1,200 kids). You just have to learn to ignore stuff like that which can be really hard at first. Also, some guys are more intrigued than perverted.
I have the same problem with athletics too. I can't run/jog/jump/etc without them hurting like hell, even when I have a good bra on. I would talk to your teacher privately to see if there is something that can be worked out. Make sure you still get exercise though. Swimming is great if you have big boobs...
Also, some clothes will definatly flatter your figure more than others. If you buy a shirt, get a v-neck. Princess seams also flatter your figure a lot.
You may still need to alter your clothes though with sewing.
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Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 11:36 pm
34 I. I think I have the biggest here.
If you can put up with the squishing of the breasts (it's REALLY annoying) get a sports bra a cup size or two smaller. The largest sports bra I've ever found is about a DDD/E or F (don't remember, and the tag faded) and I squeeze myself into it for dance class. It keeps my breasts from moving, but I can't wear it for very long.
As for the guys, they should shut up about it. Most of my friends have, except for the occasional good-natured jokes. Tell them, and KEEP telling them until they get the point that you don't like it.
As for clothes, there isn't much you can do without making your breasts seem bigger, but, you can look into a minimizer bra. They're not comfortable for everyone, but when I was your size, and a bit bigger, I wore a Bali bra.
And... I'm sorry to say this, but, you're probably going to get bigger. Stay fit, it'll help keep you from backaches later. The weight can cause backaches, but the fitter you are, the less they'll happen, but ONLY exercise either by something like swimming, where your breasts don't bounce, or with a REALLY good bra. Or else it'll be painful, and you'll start sagging faster.
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 3:08 am
RoseRose 34 I. I think I have the biggest here. If you can put up with the squishing of the breasts (it's REALLY annoying) get a sports bra a cup size or two smaller. The largest sports bra I've ever found is about a DDD/E or F (don't remember, and the tag faded) and I squeeze myself into it for dance class. It keeps my breasts from moving, but I can't wear it for very long. As for the guys, they should shut up about it. Most of my friends have, except for the occasional good-natured jokes. Tell them, and KEEP telling them until they get the point that you don't like it. As for clothes, there isn't much you can do without making your breasts seem bigger, but, you can look into a minimizer bra. They're not comfortable for everyone, but when I was your size, and a bit bigger, I wore a Bali bra. And... I'm sorry to say this, but, you're probably going to get bigger. Stay fit, it'll help keep you from backaches later. The weight can cause backaches, but the fitter you are, the less they'll happen, but ONLY exercise either by something like swimming, where your breasts don't bounce, or with a REALLY good bra. Or else it'll be painful, and you'll start sagging faster. Le damn, I knew that was coming. I don't get it, my mother is very flat chested and so is my father (XD) So I don't see where I got these. Oh well I will takr your advice though. thanks ^_^
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Posted: Tue May 09, 2006 2:46 pm
[Lone_Wolf] RoseRose 34 I. I think I have the biggest here. If you can put up with the squishing of the breasts (it's REALLY annoying) get a sports bra a cup size or two smaller. The largest sports bra I've ever found is about a DDD/E or F (don't remember, and the tag faded) and I squeeze myself into it for dance class. It keeps my breasts from moving, but I can't wear it for very long. As for the guys, they should shut up about it. Most of my friends have, except for the occasional good-natured jokes. Tell them, and KEEP telling them until they get the point that you don't like it. As for clothes, there isn't much you can do without making your breasts seem bigger, but, you can look into a minimizer bra. They're not comfortable for everyone, but when I was your size, and a bit bigger, I wore a Bali bra. And... I'm sorry to say this, but, you're probably going to get bigger. Stay fit, it'll help keep you from backaches later. The weight can cause backaches, but the fitter you are, the less they'll happen, but ONLY exercise either by something like swimming, where your breasts don't bounce, or with a REALLY good bra. Or else it'll be painful, and you'll start sagging faster. Le damn, I knew that was coming. I don't get it, my mother is very flat chested and so is my father (XD) So I don't see where I got these. Oh well I will takr your advice though. thanks ^_^ Yeah... Well, good luck. If you do get bigger, and you start having trouble finding bras, I found a good website to order them from. PM me if you need it. (It's an English site... as in England, so if you're in the U.S., be careful. They don't charge shipping, but you have to pay shipping on returns.)
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Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 9:33 am
Don't worry, I'm a brit too. xp Thanks again.
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Posted: Thu May 11, 2006 9:06 pm
[Lone_Wolf] Don't worry, I'm a brit too. xp Thanks again. I'm not a brit, I just order my bras from them! *giggles* And you're welcome
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Posted: Fri May 19, 2006 10:27 pm
i'm a 36C so i'm not as big as you guys but i know the whole guys stairing thing. what i do is if i'm talking to them for a while and i see they arn't looking at my face i snap my fingers and say i don't think that's my face. sor something to that. it's funny to see them blush though... my boyfriend was like that last year it was so funny.
Hang in there girl!
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Posted: Sun May 21, 2006 4:57 pm
I'm afraid that I can't help you with trying to make your boobs smaller (I'm a 34A), but I can understand about being misproportioned. I have huge thighs, a butt that is so big that it doesn't belong on my body, a tiny waist, and boobs that need to grow badly.
My advice to you is try minimizer bras, which will make your boobs look smaller, and try to avoid wearing low cut or tight shirts. And be confident. Smile. Convince yourself that you look good, and that god made you beautiful.
And realize, if you've got it, flaunt it. If you have something that is appealing to males, they are always going to look, and you'll have to deal with that. If you are confident, guys will see beyond your boobs. And if they don't, screw them.
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Posted: Sun May 21, 2006 8:54 pm
If they're also causing you health problems, you can look into getting breast reduction surgery when you're older. From what I've been told (though then again I live in Canada, so laws might be different), a doctor won't do breast reduction surgery on someone under a certain age UNLESS they have a certain list of health problems. Curving of the spine, headaches, backaches, etc.
It might be something to ask your doctor though, just in case.
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