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 Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 8:42 pm
i used to be depressed for a long, long, long time. But because of a decision that i made a while ago my depression has gone, my only fear now is that if my boyfriend leaves me that i will become depressed again. i really don't want to feel that way again. I finally feel happiness, and it feels great to finally feel happy.
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 5:47 pm
maybe you should try to become more self sufficient.
normally people dont become so depressed when they feel likek they have control over thier own lives.
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 12:59 pm
People, who have goals in their life never feel depressed.
Take me for example. I have a few goals:
Help people around me,
bring happiness and joy to this world and a
secret goal I wont tell you.
I am never depressed.
If you spend time helping people around you there is almost no chance that you feel depressed again.
At least I think so.
When was the last time you made someone happy?
When was the last time you dedicated at least 1 hour of your time to help someone?
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Posted: Fri May 12, 2006 3:54 am
Raioga People, who have goals in their life never feel depressed. Take me for example. I have a few goals: Help people around me, bring happiness and joy to this world and a secret goal I wont tell you. I am never depressed. If you spend time helping people around you there is almost no chance that you feel depressed again. At least I think so. When was the last time you made someone happy? When was the last time you dedicated at least 1 hour of your time to help someone? im always helping people....i always do.
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Posted: Fri May 12, 2006 8:30 am
@Raioga:
That's kinda not true for some people. I have many goals, two of which are the same ones you mentioned, and i'm still depressed most of the time.
@=[D]reame[R]=:
I've felt like that before as well... It's normal to become unhappy for a while after something bad like that happens, though. My advice probably isn't the greatest, but maybe it would be a good idea to find more things that make you happy? I know that's hard, but maybe a hobby, like something creative, or maybe excercise... Things that naturally make you feel good after doing them. But i don't know, i'm no doctor, just a kid who does a lot of research.
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Posted: Wed May 24, 2006 2:08 pm
=[D]reame[R]= Raioga People, who have goals in their life never feel depressed. Take me for example. I have a few goals: Help people around me, bring happiness and joy to this world and a secret goal I wont tell you. I am never depressed. If you spend time helping people around you there is almost no chance that you feel depressed again. At least I think so. When was the last time you made someone happy? When was the last time you dedicated at least 1 hour of your time to help someone? im always helping people....i always do.
Of course if he brakes up with you. (which is very likely for a highschool relationship), you might be sad. You can only prevent a depression if you will be ready for it. Take it as a fact that it will happen one day and enjoy the time you have with him. When/If this day comes, you will feel sad, but I think and hope that this will be over soon and you will go on in your life.
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Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 11:28 am
Raioga, you are wrong about some of the thigns you said.
You have to remember that each person is different, and while helping people works for you, it doesn't necessarily mean it will help everyone else. I've had goals my whole life yet still suffereed from depression to the point where I attempted suicide several times.
And being prepared for sadness doesn't prevent depression, it may help a little but it doesn't always, my advice is make the best of your relationship as it is, if you break up then go to people who care about you for support, if you feel like cutting then just call a friend, talk to them until you feel better.
Ryoaie made a good point, work a little bit on your own, look for things that will help you deal with sadness, things that you can do on your own, (things that help me are painting, writing, listening to up-beat music I can dance to, or doing yoga/exersizing, keeping up a good diet.) so you won't feel as dependant upon him, like your world is falling apart if he breaks up with you.
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:09 am
I understand what you are trying to say.
I have been through several experiences myself and it hurts a lot. It’s just like, when you are about to pick yourself up from a fall, you trip again and end up hurting yourself even greater. And then… that feeling that I detest comes back to haunt my dreams again.
But there is always someone out there anywhere who has it worse that you are. Try not to be too pessimist about the future. If what you are very afraid of becomes a reality, you must take it easy and continue life as per normal. I know there will be some changes in your life afterwards but you gotta adapt to them if you ever want to be successful.
It takes two to work out a relationship. Have you thought of what life is going to be like if the two of you live together, not happily, but in misery? Isn’t that feeling a lot worse than finalizing a break-up?
-hugs-
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