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I'm totally unsure if I'm gay, bi, or straight. I'm leaning towards the bi side, but I still have NO CLUE!! Does anyone else feel this way?

Yes I'm male. And yes.
Making out yes; blowjobs, No. I don't look at porn.

I was the same way until I had my first expericance with the same sex. Then I knew

Yeah, I'm the same way, but I'm leaning towards straight.

I get attracted to women, men, trans people, people of any gender. I don't have to want to have sex with them to be pansexual, I could simply want to make out with them or have a crush on them. Hope it helps.

Send me your address and I'll come and help you find out wink

In all seriousness, though, ask yourself this: Have you ever seen pictures of guys that have held your attention? Perhaps a picture of a guy that you couldn't stop staring at? You might not even consciously consider it "attractive", but it holds your attention nonetheless. Like I've said before, if you find that you are attracted to guys in the same way you're attracted to girls (maybe not to the same degree, but in the same way), then you are most likely bisexual.

Being unsure is a completely normal thing. Even when you think you've got this sexuality thing figured out and slapped in its place, new things come up to make you doubt and question. I thought I was positively utterly completely bisexual. I was SO happy and relieved when I finally figured it out and was able to say for sure what team I played for.

But now I'm starting to wonder if I really do like guys ta all anymore. I've always been more inclined to like girls, but boys were okay too. but lately I've realised that I can't think of a single guy, one I know, could think up, or know as a celebrity that I would be sexually intimate with, let alone engage in a commited romantic relationship with.

The thing you should ask yourselves, I think, is who can you see yourself falling in love with? Sexual urges are a lot about hormones and less about compatibility, in my experiance. You may want to ******** a guy or girl, but could you see yourself in a romantic relationship with them? Getting married, raising children and growing old together? When I think into the future, I can't see myself with a husband. I see myself when I'm 40, making morning coffee for my wife while getting our teenaged son or daughter up for school.

So I don't know if this was helpful to any of you, but I find it's helpful to look ahead to get a more clear knowledge of which sex we prefer.

In the end, maybe nobody is ever really sure.