Using different techniques to make your ability(-ies) stronger is the only way to go with this. I personally am sensative to an extent. There is a little girl's spirit in my house and I'm the only one in my family that has seen her, but everyone else has felt her presence. We believe that (since my parents are avid antique collectors) that she is a spirit that is attached to an object that was beloved to her, well, it's a doll, but anyways... anyone know about spirits being attached to beloved objects? That and when it comes down to it, I am VERY empathic... almost psychic sometimes, like knowing when someone is hurt or upset or something, or more often than not being "in the right place at the right time".