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Have you said I Love You to early or to late?
  To Early
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  I said it at the right time
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Iternal Dragon

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 2:20 pm


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 2:40 pm


Don't worry about it so much.

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Thomas Neo Anderson

PostPosted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 3:09 pm


If a Peabody gets in here, you are doomed.

Personally, I think the relationship is far enough developed and you KNOW you love her, so why not say it? There is a really good chance she feels the same. I wouldn't advise waiting for her to say it, because maybe she is waiting for you to say the same thing, and everyone likes for the other person to make the first move.

If you're looking for an opening, you need to be nonchalant. Maybe slip it in, it doesn't need to be the center of the conversation.

Me personally? My relationships have failed because of age and distance. I live too far away from those I love and I am not old enough to travel there regularly. But once, something that could have become a relationship, I did tell her I love her (which was actually a lie), and it made her more clingy and affectionate, but it failed overall because I didn't really love her at all. So make sure you can classify your feelings as such.
PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 7:36 am


Um.. who's Peabody

Well ok's don't you think is to early? I mean.. I do love her, and I really whant to say it... But basacly that fear alway's overwelms me. Like last night right when I said bye I had said "I" and stoped.. >.< it sucks... this feeling sucks and the fright just semi-makes it worse... -sigh's-

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Thomas Neo Anderson

PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 2:33 pm


I don't think it is too early at all. If you love her, then don't worry about telling her. I know it is difficult and you're worried, but it's probably for the best. Just build up some nerve and do it. I don't think you have anything to be afraid of.
PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 4:11 pm




Peabody?
Pssh.
If this thread was actually in LI I'd have torn it apart :3
But I do have respect for this guild.
So I will hold back for the most part.

It's pretty much far enough into the relationship to say you love someone once you know for sure that you do...
Hell... The most difinitive time in my life I ever told someone I loved them was before the relationship had even began.
Long before.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 4:45 pm


You know... i still don't know who peabody is.

Also alright... though if you guys don't mind ill tell her face to face, over the phone just... I don't know... I just don't like it...o.O;
PostPosted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 8:25 pm


All I can say is follow what your heart desires

` J a k e


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 31, 2006 1:42 pm


Kashinda
All I can say is follow what your heart desires


Yea and right now it's compeating wheater to say I love you or not XD
PostPosted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 4:40 pm


If you feel like she loves you, it would be good to tell her you love her. Otherwise, it may not be so good to say that. Best follow your instinct.

Ol_Dirty_Custard

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