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Do you ever just want to pick up and move away?

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Classic Trash


PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 9:48 am


I have to push through a little longer for college reasons, but do any of you ever experience the compelling urge to just move away and start new?
My current connections feel stale, and I feel completely unsatisfied.
My "friends" are fickle, and I am beginning to realize how much like the Mean Girls clique they are like. They might enjoy the whole gossip and feeling above everyone type life, but I am over it.
I need people with substance, though I am finding it hard to find without them being totally off their rocker.
I have been left anxiety ridden, always wondering if they are gossiping about me when they don't answer texts and I see them all partying together.
I am tired of feeling used, and the personalities around me.
I am really tired of this city.
/end rant
PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 1:26 pm


Oh. I know how that goes.
My situation is quite a bit different, but the feeling is the same.
Yes. I do want to pick up and move.

Green_crayon42

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Classic Trash


PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 4:16 pm


Green_crayon42

Well, I hope things clear up for you.
It's unfortunate that it isn't as easy as it was back in like the 50's where you could spontaneously move and take up work somewhere from simply asking and being polite. D;
PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 4:27 pm


Classic Trash
Green_crayon42

Well, I hope things clear up for you.
It's unfortunate that it isn't as easy as it was back in like the 50's where you could spontaneously move and take up work somewhere from simply asking and being polite. D;
toats.

Green_crayon42

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 18, 2016 7:25 pm


        I'm in a weird combination of both sides of that scenario. I want to recycle my friends because I've come to realize that people take advantage of my kindness and use me. Some (and by some, I mean most) people I talk to anymore will ONLY talk when they want something.

        On the other hand, I'm kind of being forced to relocate due to my new job, and I don't like it. There's a possibility of meeting new friends there, but it's not really a social kind of job.

        sweatdrop
PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2016 1:21 pm


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          I do!
          Ive been having this feeling a lot lately. i find myself spending all my tiem googling different cities id rather run away to than do anything else.
          its depressing.

          And I think that there are ALWAYS going to be people like that. -hugs-
          its part of life... <333


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 6:11 am


I've thought about it a lot. I still live with my parents, and am currently unemployed. I have a few friends in the area but mostly what's keeping me here is my bf. If he could find another job somewhere else I'd move in a heartbeat.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 20, 2016 5:48 pm


I used to have that urge a lot, even though I had good people in my life. I'm not really sure why

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Lustful Toxin

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 29, 2016 5:18 pm


I have done that and it was the right call because this August will be 6 years since I picked up and moved away. With only a bag of clothes and a laptop, plus 3,000 dollars cash. Left everything alone-

Now, I have a full time job [Never had one before], a loving partner, builded up PC by myself, life is now stabled. much happier than before.
PostPosted: Wed Jun 29, 2016 5:40 pm


I feel like that a lot, off and on, but usually the main reason I stay is my brother (Steven)/bff; I don't want to get into it (I should start a thread for it on its own). Let's just say he needs me and vice-versa. 3nodding

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 11, 2016 3:02 pm


There are some days where I just want to get into my car, drive across the country, legally change my name, cut all ties with each and every person I know, and start completely fresh.

Our situations are different but I totally feel you.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 03, 2016 8:03 pm


Yes and I'm planning to, I just need to sell my property I don't intend to bring with so I have a financial safety cushion and I'm off.

I've got very severe wanderlust.

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