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 Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2016 4:53 am
I'm in a pretty tough situation at the moment. I was in an online relationship for a while (on gaia), and until recently (May 27 I think?) I decided to break up. I realized that I made a mistake. She never logged back onto her account, so I never could talk to her about it. I decided that if we were not going to see each other face to face, why keep it up? Well, now I'm not too sure. All I know now is that I need some advice.
She posted in her status that she's thinking of making a new account, but I don't know how to contact her. I keep thinking about her nearly everyday, so it really hurts. She also seems to be pretty busy outside of Gaia. We never did any sort of video based chat. We mainly messaged each other on Gaia. After a while she grew on me.
I know it sounds very silly, but I don't know what she looks like. Back then I kept asking her if I could at least see her face. I don't know. I have heard about people getting catfished online, so I'm very cautious. The Internet can be a strange place. I tried to look for her, but I'm stuck. Also, I happen to be a hardcore romantic, so I have a very hard time moving on and adapting.
I doubt she will talk to me at all. I left a handwritten apology on my profile, I don't know if she ever saw it. I doubt it would change much. I know I sound pessimistic, but I don't know what to think.
Should I just move on and put it all behind me, or should I try to wait and see what happens?
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 7:53 pm
Iris_Vividae23 I'm in a pretty tough situation at the moment. I was in an online relationship for a while (on gaia), and until recently (May 27 I think?) I decided to break up. I realized that I made a mistake. She never logged back onto her account, so I never could talk to her about it. I decided that if we were not going to see each other face to face, why keep it up? Well, now I'm not too sure. All I know now is that I need some advice. She posted in her status that she's thinking of making a new account, but I don't know how to contact her. I keep thinking about her nearly everyday, so it really hurts. She also seems to be pretty busy outside of Gaia. We never did any sort of video based chat. We mainly messaged each other on Gaia. After a while she grew on me. I know it sounds very silly, but I don't know what she looks like. Back then I kept asking her if I could at least see her face. I don't know. I have heard about people getting catfished online, so I'm very cautious. The Internet can be a strange place. I tried to look for her, but I'm stuck. Also, I happen to be a hardcore romantic, so I have a very hard time moving on and adapting. I doubt she will talk to me at all. I left a handwritten apology on my profile, I don't know if she ever saw it. I doubt it would change much. I know I sound pessimistic, but I don't know what to think. Should I just move on and put it all behind me, or should I try to wait and see what happens? Love, I think you should try. Me and my girlfriend met here on gaia. 7 years ago. We are in a long distance relationship and have never met in person, but we are keeping it going. However, the one difference is we Skype at least once a month. Do you have any idea how many times I've been in this situation? (BTW it's a lot because I am crazy.) If she loves you too, it'll work out. If not, well it just wasn't meant to be, but you tried. Don't give up on this person if you really love her. I'm also a hardcore romantic, and I don't believe on giving up on love.
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Seraphina Crimsonrose Captain
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 8:07 pm
Nell Tali BR Baskerville Iris_Vividae23 I'm in a pretty tough situation at the moment. I was in an online relationship for a while (on gaia), and until recently (May 27 I think?) I decided to break up. I realized that I made a mistake. She never logged back onto her account, so I never could talk to her about it. I decided that if we were not going to see each other face to face, why keep it up? Well, now I'm not too sure. All I know now is that I need some advice. She posted in her status that she's thinking of making a new account, but I don't know how to contact her. I keep thinking about her nearly everyday, so it really hurts. She also seems to be pretty busy outside of Gaia. We never did any sort of video based chat. We mainly messaged each other on Gaia. After a while she grew on me. I know it sounds very silly, but I don't know what she looks like. Back then I kept asking her if I could at least see her face. I don't know. I have heard about people getting catfished online, so I'm very cautious. The Internet can be a strange place. I tried to look for her, but I'm stuck. Also, I happen to be a hardcore romantic, so I have a very hard time moving on and adapting. I doubt she will talk to me at all. I left a handwritten apology on my profile, I don't know if she ever saw it. I doubt it would change much. I know I sound pessimistic, but I don't know what to think. Should I just move on and put it all behind me, or should I try to wait and see what happens? Love, I think you should try. Me and my girlfriend met here on gaia. 7 years ago. We are in a long distance relationship and have never met in person, but we are keeping it going. However, the one difference is we Skype at least once a month. Do you have any idea how many times I've been in this situation? (BTW it's a lot because I am crazy.) If she loves you too, it'll work out. If not, well it just wasn't meant to be, but you tried. Don't give up on this person if you really love her. I'm also a hardcore romantic, and I don't believe on giving up on love. Oh my goodness, thank you so much! I swear, long distance relationships are in a league of their own. The only problem is that she doesn't log onto her main account. :/ I just wrote a message on my profile as a shoutout to her friends. They may, or may not see it. I could make a post in the forums, but I don't exactly know where to post it. Thank you so much for your advice! It means a lot to me! emotion_hug
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Posted: Thu Jun 16, 2016 8:54 pm
Iris_Vividae23 Nell Tali BR Baskerville Iris_Vividae23 I'm in a pretty tough situation at the moment. I was in an online relationship for a while (on gaia), and until recently (May 27 I think?) I decided to break up. I realized that I made a mistake. She never logged back onto her account, so I never could talk to her about it. I decided that if we were not going to see each other face to face, why keep it up? Well, now I'm not too sure. All I know now is that I need some advice. She posted in her status that she's thinking of making a new account, but I don't know how to contact her. I keep thinking about her nearly everyday, so it really hurts. She also seems to be pretty busy outside of Gaia. We never did any sort of video based chat. We mainly messaged each other on Gaia. After a while she grew on me. I know it sounds very silly, but I don't know what she looks like. Back then I kept asking her if I could at least see her face. I don't know. I have heard about people getting catfished online, so I'm very cautious. The Internet can be a strange place. I tried to look for her, but I'm stuck. Also, I happen to be a hardcore romantic, so I have a very hard time moving on and adapting. I doubt she will talk to me at all. I left a handwritten apology on my profile, I don't know if she ever saw it. I doubt it would change much. I know I sound pessimistic, but I don't know what to think. Should I just move on and put it all behind me, or should I try to wait and see what happens? Love, I think you should try. Me and my girlfriend met here on gaia. 7 years ago. We are in a long distance relationship and have never met in person, but we are keeping it going. However, the one difference is we Skype at least once a month. Do you have any idea how many times I've been in this situation? (BTW it's a lot because I am crazy.) If she loves you too, it'll work out. If not, well it just wasn't meant to be, but you tried. Don't give up on this person if you really love her. I'm also a hardcore romantic, and I don't believe on giving up on love. Oh my goodness, thank you so much! I swear, long distance relationships are in a league of their own. The only problem is that she doesn't log onto her main account. :/ I just wrote a message on my profile as a shoutout to her friends. They may, or may not see it. I could make a post in the forums, but I don't exactly know where to post it. Thank you so much for your advice! It means a lot to me! emotion_hug You are so welcome! And if you ever want to talk, I'm always willing to give my attention.
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Seraphina Crimsonrose Captain
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Seraphina Crimsonrose Captain
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Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 8:26 pm
Iris_Vividae23 Nell Tali BR Baskerville Iris_Vividae23 I'm in a pretty tough situation at the moment. I was in an online relationship for a while (on gaia), and until recently (May 27 I think?) I decided to break up. I realized that I made a mistake. She never logged back onto her account, so I never could talk to her about it. I decided that if we were not going to see each other face to face, why keep it up? Well, now I'm not too sure. All I know now is that I need some advice. She posted in her status that she's thinking of making a new account, but I don't know how to contact her. I keep thinking about her nearly everyday, so it really hurts. She also seems to be pretty busy outside of Gaia. We never did any sort of video based chat. We mainly messaged each other on Gaia. After a while she grew on me. I know it sounds very silly, but I don't know what she looks like. Back then I kept asking her if I could at least see her face. I don't know. I have heard about people getting catfished online, so I'm very cautious. The Internet can be a strange place. I tried to look for her, but I'm stuck. Also, I happen to be a hardcore romantic, so I have a very hard time moving on and adapting. I doubt she will talk to me at all. I left a handwritten apology on my profile, I don't know if she ever saw it. I doubt it would change much. I know I sound pessimistic, but I don't know what to think. Should I just move on and put it all behind me, or should I try to wait and see what happens? Love, I think you should try. Me and my girlfriend met here on gaia. 7 years ago. We are in a long distance relationship and have never met in person, but we are keeping it going. However, the one difference is we Skype at least once a month. Do you have any idea how many times I've been in this situation? (BTW it's a lot because I am crazy.) If she loves you too, it'll work out. If not, well it just wasn't meant to be, but you tried. Don't give up on this person if you really love her. I'm also a hardcore romantic, and I don't believe on giving up on love. Oh my goodness, thank you so much! I swear, long distance relationships are in a league of their own. The only problem is that she doesn't log onto her main account. :/ I just wrote a message on my profile as a shoutout to her friends. They may, or may not see it. I could make a post in the forums, but I don't exactly know where to post it. Thank you so much for your advice! It means a lot to me! emotion_hug Did you ever get back in contact with her? I want to know what happened!
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