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Sex change for the one you love?

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sex change for the one you love?
  hmm...maybe.
  no, never!
  for love? of course!
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EllynSkyeHi

PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 7:47 pm


Would you ever consider a sex change to be with the one you love...if you thought due to their sexuality, they couldn't be with you unless you were a certain way?

*sighs*

in case you were wondering, i am in heart with a guy,...who happens to like guys...and i'm a "genderfluid"(right term?) girl...who likes both....i have considered sex changes before...i've just never considered having one FOR someone...i mean, i wouldn't without discussing a relationship with him first, but...*sighs* i'm just really sad, and confused...and emotional...and ....mehh...

anyone have thoughts or opinions on the first question? Would you do it, if they said they would be with you or is the risk too great/something you just wouldn't do?
PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 9:28 pm


I would never undergo a sex change for love. I intend to get a sex change someday, but that is for myself. Someone else should never influence a decision like this. You have to do whatever makes you happy. If you were to get a sex change for someone else, but did not want to get one for yourself, then you would probably be miserable. A sex change has to be for yourself and should never be for someone else.

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2016 6:33 am


As said above! I'd also regard anyone who asked you to do something like that for a relationship warily. That kind of a choice is far to big to make for anyone but yourself!
PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2016 1:04 pm


smile yeah you're probly right.

i mean, i would consider one for dual reasons. (myself and my love interest).

but i honestly don't think if he really cared about me, he would want me to get one...

i mean, he should like me both ways, either way...anyways...

that's how i feel about him...but if he were to have a sex change i might find it weird because i've thought about it and i like him as a guy better...but i wouldn't try to put him off...i would want him to do what truly makes him happy. <3

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 17, 2016 7:23 pm


You should never get a sex change for someone. Whats wrong with using a strapon together? My friend does that with her boyfriend who is gay.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 18, 2016 4:45 pm


thanks for your comment. that's really cool...your friend has a gay boyfriend?

i'm crushing on my gay friend--is there any advice you could me/us?

thanks!

Elly

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