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Ojino

PostPosted: Sat Dec 26, 2015 1:08 pm


Those people who don't really respect the fact that someone is in a relationship?

Like a compliment is fine, but insisting on it and saying more and more just goes to show how DESPERATE and disrespectful the person is. SPECIALLY when they know the other one is taken.

Both me and my boyfriend get these kind of people to message us. Just so happens i get them more often. It actually pisses me off when someone messages me saying how cute i am and all that. Because it just so happens to be when i'm taken, lmfao. When i'm single its just like i'm a potato. Not to mention i'm the jealous kind.

Personally i just find those people pretty desperate and low. Very disrespectful.
Sadly it tends to happen a lot in the LGBT community, by what i've seen.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 26, 2015 11:44 pm


Ojino


Similar situations have happened to me, but it's mostly guys I've talked to in the past coming back to sniff around. I remember the first few months after I got married a lot of the dudes I had been trying to get with started hitting me up and of course I told them I was married. Instant silence. LOL I mean if you snooze you lose!

I definitely have to disagree about it being a bigger issue in the GLBT community. My straight friends have had the same issue, and especially my sister. In high school I'd constantly get guys coming up to me and asking me to set them up with her. I'd just laugh in their faces and keep going. Desperation is more prevalent though, but that's mainly because there's not as many gay people as there are straight. When someone is gay meets another gay person they instantly get their hopes up. I've been there, but I can't say I've ever pushed once I found out they were taken. In fact, after I found out I'd instantly lose interest in them lol.

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Ojino

PostPosted: Sun Dec 27, 2015 8:48 am


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Ojino


Similar situations have happened to me, but it's mostly guys I've talked to in the past coming back to sniff around. I remember the first few months after I got married a lot of the dudes I had been trying to get with started hitting me up and of course I told them I was married. Instant silence. LOL I mean if you snooze you lose!

I definitely have to disagree about it being a bigger issue in the GLBT community. My straight friends have had the same issue, and especially my sister. In high school I'd constantly get guys coming up to me and asking me to set them up with her. I'd just laugh in their faces and keep going. Desperation is more prevalent though, but that's mainly because there's not as many gay people as there are straight. When someone is gay meets another gay person they instantly get their hopes up. I've been there, but I can't say I've ever pushed once I found out they were taken. In fact, after I found out I'd instantly lose interest in them lol.


Lool
"I mean if you snooze you lose!" - Karmerruk

Added to my list of quotes XD

Well i guess it depends on where you live and all that. Well i mean i've never really been hit on in real life, mostly because i haven't been to normal school ever since 6th grade XD And having a class mate of mine tell me to look at how his boner moved through pants... eh, that wouldn't be considered being hit on XD But yea, i've only seen mostly lgbt people do such things.But i guess you're right.

My boyfriend gets them both in real life and online. - 3-; Just urgh.
PostPosted: Tue Feb 16, 2016 9:32 am


Also having the same situation with a couple people lol,
Sometimes I like the attention because my current relationship may or may not be falling apart,
But I'm still taken, Respect that,


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 16, 2016 10:15 am


When we're in satisfying relationships, we generally are much happier. When we're happy, we generally appear to be much more attractive, and I think it contributes to the level of compliments people get when they're in or out of a relationship.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 19, 2016 9:03 pm


I'll always be single, but yeah if your partner is flirting back or whatever should be game over.

Too many cheaters in the world.

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Ojino

PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2016 12:10 pm


Minaka Wulfe
Also having the same situation with a couple people lol,
Sometimes I like the attention because my current relationship may or may not be falling apart,
But I'm still taken, Respect that,
Well, it depends on the person, really. Personally ive always liked things when directed at me, but now that i'm in a relationship i don't. Even less when they're directed to my hubby and are just straight up disrespectful, like, asking for a threesome even though they know he is with me.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2016 12:12 pm


Enkidu Awakened
When we're in satisfying relationships, we generally are much happier. When we're happy, we generally appear to be much more attractive, and I think it contributes to the level of compliments people get when they're in or out of a relationship.
One thing is giving compliments, another is being straight up hoe proposing sex and so on even though you know there's someone else in the picture. razz But yes, you pretty much are right.

Ojino


Ojino

PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2016 12:14 pm


sleepover in your mouth
I'll always be single, but yeah if your partner is flirting back or whatever should be game over.

Too many cheaters in the world.


Indeed, there are too many. Wish it was different and people would just respect and settle down. Hey, if you're going to cheat, just break up or don't get into a serious relationship ever.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2016 1:12 pm


Ojino
sleepover in your mouth
I'll always be single, but yeah if your partner is flirting back or whatever should be game over.

Too many cheaters in the world.


Indeed, there are too many. Wish it was different and people would just respect and settle down. Hey, if you're going to cheat, just break up or don't get into a serious relationship ever.
My now ex told me he's cheated in the past. b***h BYE

benbeenybe


Ojino

PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2016 3:58 pm


sleepover in your mouth
Ojino
sleepover in your mouth
I'll always be single, but yeah if your partner is flirting back or whatever should be game over.

Too many cheaters in the world.


Indeed, there are too many. Wish it was different and people would just respect and settle down. Hey, if you're going to cheat, just break up or don't get into a serious relationship ever.
My now ex told me he's cheated in the past. b***h BYE
Lmfao, is he an ex because of the same reason? Sorry to intrude.

I'm a romantic, and to be hooonest, i only feel like relationships, REAL ones, are always 1 with 1. Never a third.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 20, 2016 4:57 pm


Ojino
sleepover in your mouth
Ojino
sleepover in your mouth
I'll always be single, but yeah if your partner is flirting back or whatever should be game over.

Too many cheaters in the world.


Indeed, there are too many. Wish it was different and people would just respect and settle down. Hey, if you're going to cheat, just break up or don't get into a serious relationship ever.
My now ex told me he's cheated in the past. b***h BYE
Lmfao, is he an ex because of the same reason? Sorry to intrude.

I'm a romantic, and to be hooonest, i only feel like relationships, REAL ones, are always 1 with 1. Never a third.
no he's an ex because hes like ever guy i meet lol

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 22, 2016 4:34 pm


Ojino
Those people who don't really respect the fact that someone is in a relationship?

Like a compliment is fine, but insisting on it and saying more and more just goes to show how DESPERATE and disrespectful the person is. SPECIALLY when they know the other one is taken.

Both me and my boyfriend get these kind of people to message us. Just so happens i get them more often. It actually pisses me off when someone messages me saying how cute i am and all that. Because it just so happens to be when i'm taken, lmfao. When i'm single its just like i'm a potato. Not to mention i'm the jealous kind.

Personally i just find those people pretty desperate and low. Very disrespectful.
Sadly it tends to happen a lot in the LGBT community, by what i've seen.

Turn it into a game and make different types of messages worth more or less points and compete against your boyfriend. Like football but with lonely people.
PostPosted: Tue Feb 23, 2016 9:45 am


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Ojino
Those people who don't really respect the fact that someone is in a relationship?

Like a compliment is fine, but insisting on it and saying more and more just goes to show how DESPERATE and disrespectful the person is. SPECIALLY when they know the other one is taken.

Both me and my boyfriend get these kind of people to message us. Just so happens i get them more often. It actually pisses me off when someone messages me saying how cute i am and all that. Because it just so happens to be when i'm taken, lmfao. When i'm single its just like i'm a potato. Not to mention i'm the jealous kind.

Personally i just find those people pretty desperate and low. Very disrespectful.
Sadly it tends to happen a lot in the LGBT community, by what i've seen.

Turn it into a game and make different types of messages worth more or less points and compete against your boyfriend. Like football but with lonely people.
To be honest i don't get what you're saying.

Compete against him?

Ojino


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 23, 2016 9:50 am


Ojino
Archangel Thaeos
Ojino
Those people who don't really respect the fact that someone is in a relationship?

Like a compliment is fine, but insisting on it and saying more and more just goes to show how DESPERATE and disrespectful the person is. SPECIALLY when they know the other one is taken.

Both me and my boyfriend get these kind of people to message us. Just so happens i get them more often. It actually pisses me off when someone messages me saying how cute i am and all that. Because it just so happens to be when i'm taken, lmfao. When i'm single its just like i'm a potato. Not to mention i'm the jealous kind.

Personally i just find those people pretty desperate and low. Very disrespectful.
Sadly it tends to happen a lot in the LGBT community, by what i've seen.

Turn it into a game and make different types of messages worth more or less points and compete against your boyfriend. Like football but with lonely people.
To be honest i don't get what you're saying.

Compete against him?

Like make a point system and compete for points
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