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(18+??) Nervous, Scared, but Necessary? (LONG READ KINDA)

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:20 am


So, i got kicked out a while back...I have been living with my girlfriend ever since. We just moved into an apartment together with a roommate we met online. My roommate hasn't gotten any work yet and neither have I. My girlfriend is the only money maker at the time and she alone cant afford the rent.
I was and still am "technically" employed at UPS as a seasonal drivers assistant..but when i was finishing up my paper work they "found out" i was a student (which was covered in the interview cat_stare ) and said they would call me back to see if they could fit me in.... cat_scream EVEN THOUGH I ONLY HAVE CLASS FOR 3 HOURS 3 TIMES A WEEK. I am STILL waiting for them to call me back...did i mention they don't have a phone to call HR back??
We recently sat down together and talked, and we came to the decision that we should try to find something in the porn kinda industry....and now i'm signed up to be a Cam girl....
I dont know if its just the fact that i was raised into thinking its a social stigma but..I feel really uneasy about this. I also feel like i got the raw end of the deal....my girlfriend actually has a job so yea i get she shouldn't do it...but my roommate hasn't done much either, i at least have my half of the rent saved, but...it feels like they both kinda agreed that i should do it...and i just couldn't defend myself....
Im scared..nervous...and worried about all of it...plus i feel like secretly my relationship with the bae is going to suffer even though she recommended it....
PostPosted: Sat Nov 28, 2015 7:52 pm


Oh dear...



Do you live around a major city? I would apply to other jobs before doing something that you are so uncomfortable with to be honest, especially if you see problems in the future with your relationship. I am currently in the job mode stage, and it seems hopeless, but only if you don't apply. There is something reassuring every time you submit an application somewhere. Always call back too, after a week if you have no heard from the company.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 28, 2015 8:52 pm


I understand that you need money but make sure you haven't been pressured into something you really don't want to do. I don't know the entire situation and I don't really have any advice. I wish I could be more helpful.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 29, 2015 7:47 pm


If you're this worried about it you should sit down with your girlfriend and explain your fears to her

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