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 Posted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 10:00 pm
the title pretty much explains it all. (This may be a lil long). But my bf and i have been going out for a little over two months. He's pretty much a gamer but he usually finds time for me...most of the time. And recently we've only been hanging out only once a week (besides school, lunch onlyWHICH ISN'T NORMAL). But for the past few days he just doesn't come to school. and that same day he won't call me (which isn't like him). i don't know if i should call him or be mad at him but i'm feeling pretty shitty right now.
he's even on AIM right this moment and he's still not talking to me
should i be concerned?
advice please!!
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Posted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 2:36 pm
If those are the main things that worry you, it is too soon to think anything is wrong. Some people get reclusive and if he isn't coming to school, then it is not just you he is avoiding, which is a good thing. Sometimes people go out of their way to not see certain people, which is much more concerning.
If he isn't talking to you, I recommend reaching out. Try calling him, or IMing him. If he doesn't seem to be very talkative, I would wait a while before trying again. Something may be bothering him or he just might not be feeling very social.
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Posted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 6:48 pm
thankies for the advice smile
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 11:30 am
Mabye there is something bothering him at the moment. Try asking him, but if he says nothing don't be to pushy, just say you're there for him if he needs someone to talk to.
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:52 pm
Most of the time teenage boys are unwilling to make a serious commitment. Now, before I get flak from the guys saying "nuh uh!" lemme 'splain...
See, boys go on one basis in relationships: how does she currently feel? If a boy senses a girl is happy, then all's right with the world. If he senses she's sad, he'll try to cheer her up. If she's mad, then he'll attempt to see what's wrong and storm off when he can't. However, if a girl's not present, he can't evaluate how she currently feels, so therefore no harm no foul. If he does still like you, then he's completely unaware of how you're feeling right now.
Now, of course he could be purposefully ignoring you, which would mean your relationship is over.
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Posted: Sat Mar 25, 2006 6:59 am
Soleq Most of the time teenage boys are unwilling to make a serious commitment. Now, before I get flak from the guys saying "nuh uh!" lemme 'splain... See, boys go on one basis in relationships: how does she currently feel? If a boy senses a girl is happy, then all's right with the world. If he senses she's sad, he'll try to cheer her up. If she's mad, then he'll attempt to see what's wrong and storm off when he can't. However, if a girl's not present, he can't evaluate how she currently feels, so therefore no harm no foul. If he does still like you, then he's completely unaware of how you're feeling right now. Now, of course he could be purposefully ignoring you, which would mean your relationship is over.
D':
I don't storm off when I can't figure out what's wrong with my girlfriend
And yeah... That's the only part of that I disagreed with...
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 8:26 am
maybe you've been to clingy, and you should let your man have some space...u dont have to ignore him completely...
if you havent...then ask him why he is recently so distant
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 4:49 pm
Well it has just been today... and you said he's only been kinda like this for a few days now.... so I'd say give it a few more days. He might just need some space right now. Give him some space, but then if he doesn't go back to normal, then ask him what's wrong.
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