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 Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 3:56 am
Nikolita Kukushka 1. For now, there's nothing you can do. So don't worry about it. I know it's hard, but just focus on other things. 2. If you don't get your period on time, take a pregnancy test. 3. In future, if you don't want to have this kind of worry, it's often best to use two birth control methods. When I was just on the pill, I had panic attacks every single month because I just wasn't sure if it was effective or not. Whereas with condoms, you can usually see if it breaks or falls off or something. So using both is a huge piece of mind. I know it doesn't "feel as good" yadda yadda, but I say a little dullness is a small price to pay to avoid the stress of going through "what if" scenarios.So for now, just calm down, learn from what happened and how you feel, and wait until you are at a point when you can actually *do* something about it. It might not hurt to talk this over with your boyfriend. If you are in no way capable of caring for a child or dealing with a pregnancy, it may not be a bad idea to wait until you are more financially stable before you pursue a sexual relationship.Exactly. smile I agree with this advice. I've already talked it over with him.
We talked that vary same day actually.
We both know we arnt financially stable, he has a job, but we are both in school.
Thank you for all your advice.
Just please don't lecture me on how I 'shouldnt' be having sex it makes me feel guilty. That and it is a little late now.
And don't take that the wrong way. Please.
I appriciate you taking the time to reply.
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 2:20 pm
I didn't mean to lecture, just was saying that I agreed with the advice Kukushka gave because a LOT of people don't take the time to talk it over, or think about the consequences of sex and the risks associated with it. That's all I meant, too.
On a side note, asking for advice doesn't always mean you're going to be told everything you want to hear. If you don't like part of someone's post (mine or anyone else's), you're welcome to ignore it. So if you didn't like that part of my post, that's ok - just ignore it. smile
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 10:21 pm
Nikolita I didn't mean to lecture, just was saying that I agreed with the advice Kukushka gave because a LOT of people don't take the time to talk it over, or think about the consequences of sex and the risks associated with it. That's all I meant, too. On a side note, asking for advice doesn't always mean you're going to be told everything you want to hear. If you don't like part of someone's post (mine or anyone else's), you're welcome to ignore it. So if you didn't like that part of my post, that's ok - just ignore it. smile No no, it isnt that. Of course I expect to hear things I don't want, I just don't like feeling guilty about everything. I feel bad enough about this whole situation.
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Posted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 3:54 pm
Ehz I've already talked it over with him.
We talked that vary same day actually.
We both know we arnt financially stable, he has a job, but we are both in school.
Thank you for all your advice.
Just please don't lecture me on how I 'shouldnt' be having sex it makes me feel guilty. That and it is a little late now.
And don't take that the wrong way. Please.
I appriciate you taking the time to reply. I didn't mean to lecture! What has happened as happened. As I've already said, I don't think you are pregnant. But deal with it when you can. But for the future, you need to use the knowledge you have gained from this (no matter how it turns out) and make sure that you don't have to go through that again. If that means not having sex ANYMORE (not erasing the sex you've already had, but preventing a possible pregnancy in the future), then so be it. You can't undo what you've done, so just feeling guilty without learning from that guilt is 100% useless. Deal with what's happened and learn from it. And remember, there's always a chance that nothing has happened at all and that you are fine. But even if that's the case, you still do need to learn from it.
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Posted: Sun Apr 02, 2006 12:16 am
So...
Just keeping you posted I guess.
I am two days in to my white pills, which is when my period is suppose to be.
I got 5 more days of waiting.
I've had a little tiny bit of blood show up, but that is about it.
This week is spring break, my mother is going to Arizona this tuesday and wont be back til the following wednesday. I'm hopping it comes, so I don't have to break that type of news to her while she is 4 states away, or the moment she gets back. My boyfriend will be stopping by between work and home, so if something comes up I will be able to let him know, and stuff so I guess that is good.
I am feeling totally crappy about being alone most of the week. ~o~
Well I can always come and talk to you ;D
Oh yeah, I got my next months birth control filled, just in case since I wont be able to go in to town while she is gone, and... they told told me they don't carry Tri-Sprintec any more and they gave me Tri-Nessa.
Anyway, that is that. Thanks ^^;
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Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 1:04 am
Ehz So...
Just keeping you posted I guess.
I am two days in to my white pills, which is when my period is suppose to be.
I got 5 more days of waiting.
I've had a little tiny bit of blood show up, but that is about it.
This week is spring break, my mother is going to Arizona this tuesday and wont be back til the following wednesday. I'm hopping it comes, so I don't have to break that type of news to her while she is 4 states away, or the moment she gets back. My boyfriend will be stopping by between work and home, so if something comes up I will be able to let him know, and stuff so I guess that is good.
I am feeling totally crappy about being alone most of the week. ~o~
Well I can always come and talk to you ;D
Oh yeah, I got my next months birth control filled, just in case since I wont be able to go in to town while she is gone, and... they told told me they don't carry Tri-Sprintec any more and they gave me Tri-Nessa.
Anyway, that is that. Thanks ^^;
Anyway.. Good luck, again. heart
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