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 Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2015 7:08 pm
What do you think about Polyamory and Monogmy?
Would you ever enter into a Polyamorous relationship? Or are you Monogomous?
Why?
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2015 10:04 pm
Well, when I was a teenager I actually had a Polyamorous relationship. That being said, in the state of my life I'm in now, I'd much rather a Monogamous relationship.
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Posted: Tue Feb 10, 2015 10:05 pm
Starlight Minako Well, when I was a teenager I actually had a Polyamorous relationship. That being said, in the state of my life I'm in now, I'd much rather a Monogamous relationship. What was your poly. relationship like, if I may be so bold as to inquire?
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Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2015 6:24 pm
It was a Polyfidelity (or Polyexclusivity). For those who don't know what that means, it's basically where all members involved are considered equal partners and agree to limit sexual contact to only partners within that group.
As for the relationship itself, it originally started as a Monogamy, but I met another girl I went absolutely gaga for, but I still liked my girlfriend at the time too, so I ended up asking my girlfriend if she's be open to the idea of a Poly relationship with the other girl and she was.
We probably had a good year before it kind of fell apart because we all wanted to focus on a single partner but none of us agreed on who should stay with who, so we ended up all breaking up and going our separate ways.
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Posted: Wed Feb 11, 2015 9:51 pm
Oops, forgot to quote so I'd be sure you'd know I responded. xp
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2015 7:15 am
Starlight Minako It was a Polyfidelity (or Polyexclusivity). For those who don't know what that means, it's basically where all members involved are considered equal partners and agree to limit sexual contact to only partners within that group.
As for the relationship itself, it originally started as a Monogamy, but I met another girl I went absolutely gaga for, but I still liked my girlfriend at the time too, so I ended up asking my girlfriend if she's be open to the idea of a Poly relationship with the other girl and she was.
We probably had a good year before it kind of fell apart because we all wanted to focus on a single partner but none of us agreed on who should stay with who, so we ended up all breaking up and going our separate ways. Most informative quote I have ever read. Thank you very much for explaining that one to me, I was actually curious about what it was called.
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Posted: Sun Feb 15, 2015 2:38 am
Starlight Minako It was a Polyfidelity (or Polyexclusivity). For those who don't know what that means, it's basically where all members involved are considered equal partners and agree to limit sexual contact to only partners within that group.
As for the relationship itself, it originally started as a Monogamy, but I met another girl I went absolutely gaga for, but I still liked my girlfriend at the time too, so I ended up asking my girlfriend if she's be open to the idea of a Poly relationship with the other girl and she was.
We probably had a good year before it kind of fell apart because we all wanted to focus on a single partner but none of us agreed on who should stay with who, so we ended up all breaking up and going our separate ways. That's a very good point.
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Posted: Mon Feb 16, 2015 2:28 pm
I was also in a poly relationship once in my life.
It started off mono, but went poly- where my girlfriend was looking for a boyfriend and I agreed, because I wanted her to be happy.
In the end she pretty much kicked me out of the relationship and is still with that guy.
So I guess it wasn't really "poly" but more like her just doing what she wanted.
Hm.
I was recently asked to join in on a poly relationship but declined the invitation.
I feel like I'm currently more suited to continue dating my boyfriend- and just him.
However in the future I may reconsider, depending on the circumstances.
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Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2015 11:52 pm
Starlight Minako It was a Polyfidelity (or Polyexclusivity). For those who don't know what that means, it's basically where all members involved are considered equal partners and agree to limit sexual contact to only partners within that group.
As for the relationship itself, it originally started as a Monogamy, but I met another girl I went absolutely gaga for, but I still liked my girlfriend at the time too, so I ended up asking my girlfriend if she's be open to the idea of a Poly relationship with the other girl and she was.
We probably had a good year before it kind of fell apart because we all wanted to focus on a single partner but none of us agreed on who should stay with who, so we ended up all breaking up and going our separate ways. I did not see this before! My bad. - I haven't really been in a solid poly relationship. I've started avoiding it recently, and given my current break up..--
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Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2015 4:52 pm
Phoebe Pallas I did not see this before! My bad. - I haven't really been in a solid poly relationship. I've started avoiding it recently, and given my current break up..--
I personally wouldn't seek out a poly relationship at this point in my life, although if it feels right I'm still open to it.
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