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Will you break up with him if he doesn't want to pick you up when you finish late at work ? Is it important to you that your boyfriend or husband come to pick you up when you finish late at work?

Here are the details of the situation
You work during the night and there is no way for you to have the day shift. You have a long relationship with your boyfriend that has day shift.

When you finish work, it's pretty late past midnight and you wish that your boyfriend come to pick you up. He does, but one day he tells you he cannot always pick you up so late at night because he is tired, he wants to sleep to perform well at work.

Then you try to make him understand that you don't feel safe going home alone, but he doesn't seem to understand and he insist that he is tired and want to perform well at work.
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In this story, it looks like the girl is dependent of the guy, but she also wants him to care about her. However, the guy wants her to understand and accept that he is tired and cannot drive her home every time.

Hi ! Thank you for your advice. This story isn't about me but my friend. I felt sorry for her that her boyfriend didn't want to pick her up past midnight. They live in the same neighborhood. It would take him 1 minute to go home and sleep after dropping her at home. She dated him for 9 years. I found that breaking up was harsh, but I understand my friend point of view she wanted to feel important to her boyfriend eyes and she doesn't want a future husband that doesn't care about her safety...