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when i went to school i was the bully, started fights with others, put others down and well even made some other kids do things they shouldn't have, in short if you got on my bad side that was it you would be tormented for as long as you were around no exceptions

my eldest son who is the captain of this guild can have a temper at times and i think part of that is inherited from me i am not trying to place blame but some Mexicans are already hot tempered at times and if your aggressive as well as a very heated temper it makes things bad

he was never as bad as i was and the main person he fought with was my younger son who is vice in here

today after a rough youth and early adult life i have finally become more mellow and wish i could go back and be different i am also helping my son to see that being tough is not the way to go and he has made great progress in the last 3 or 4 years
if most of you had know him then well lets just say you would not have wanted to be in here or talk to him

irl miguel aka the captain is trying to track down some of his old classmates and apologize to them irl, he wants them to know that he is sorry for any pain or comments he made to them, because there was people he was rough with or bordered on being like a bully to them he even gets along better with his brother these days

sadly i have found alot of my old classmates are dead or have moved out of the country and is impossible to contact them anymore so its not something i can do as easily

one thing i have to say it that i am convinced that bullying is passed down form generation to generation and may have some genetic connection as well

yes i still get into some trouble even today but its far less than when i was in school or in my 20's

I know someone who was troublemakers in my school. he's doing bad things. sad

Sometimes. sad

like people from this guild on Google plus? or just random users on there? oh well good news i dont believe all i see on Google or Google plus so its just whatever but yeah that sucks to hear stuff like that

well that does just suck, have you asked them about it? asked why they did this? maybe explain why this is bad for you or them or hurts them or you?

I'm glad you have turned things around.
sadly, some people will never realize this but the bullying that some go through highschool follow them into adulthood and can end up affecting their everyday lives. It did with me. I was bullied for being ugly, not having the best clothes. I ended up with a shopping addiction as an adult and could only buy the most expensive. If i didnt have those things i literally broke down. and felt worthless.
In a way the price tag on the item defined my worth. the shopping addiction also got in the way of me accomplishing my goals & having a good future. if i didnt stop and take control of my life then there would have been no hope for me going anywhere.

I know that is prob. the craziest thing that anybody has ever heard but I'm glad you are taking the time to try and get in contact with these people.
You never know, maybe you affected their lives negatively in some way and they never got over it, maybe speaking to you will give them closure, make them feel better.