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 Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 7:39 am
I'm ian, I'm feeling very low this while, I'm always losing in a football match (soccer) and no self confidence in me, i can't approach a girl in real life and can't even talk to a receptionist either, I'm lazy to go out but once i went out with friends, i'm too quiet and always ponder on things in my life so consistently and simultaneously that my friends thinks i'm going depresed.
My love life is a bust and the only thing keeps me worried sick is my final examinations to get above 3.5 GPAs and currently I'm a 3.3 GPAs.
I don't know where to improve in my life, Anyone out there who cares?
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Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 5:01 pm
If I knew what to tell you . . . it would be the first thing I'd say.
I'm in that situation too, in case misery loves company.
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Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 5:57 pm
Little trick I picked up in my time. Do your best, and don't look back. When it comes to girls, and taking a chance, you dont want to live your life ponder, "what would happen if I actually did that?" Go out, and take every opportunity that's tossed in front of you.
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Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 6:51 pm
THAT Changes Everything If I knew what to tell you . . . it would be the first thing I'd say. I'm in that situation too, in case misery loves company.
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Desirable Conversationalist
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Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 6:52 pm
The Courageous Wolf Little trick I picked up in my time. Do your best, and don't look back. When it comes to girls, and taking a chance, you dont want to live your life ponder, "what would happen if I actually did that?" Go out, and take every opportunity that's tossed in front of you. Hahaha!~ It not as easy as it looks, Somtimes i got friendzone so bad it feels like a spartan pit!~ Yeah, i'll do my best and notlook back, thanks!~
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Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 7:30 pm
Naifus The Courageous Wolf Little trick I picked up in my time. Do your best, and don't look back. When it comes to girls, and taking a chance, you dont want to live your life ponder, "what would happen if I actually did that?" Go out, and take every opportunity that's tossed in front of you. Hahaha!~ It not as easy as it looks, Somtimes i got friendzone so bad it feels like a spartan pit!~ Yeah, i'll do my best and notlook back, thanks!~ Not a problem. And don't worry about the bad now. Just remember everything happens for a reason. Even if you don't get that 3.5 (even though if you work really hard, and give it your all I know you can do it) its just fate guiding you down a different hall. A good example of fate, and happenings, is my life. (Warning may be hard to understand) -When the OKC bombing happened, my brother and I were suppose to be in the daycare that was hit by the explosion, but my brother got sick and we had to stay home. -When I was really young, I slid off a rocky cliffside, and managed to survive. -When my cousin feel through the ice, I jumped in after her, and we spent the weekend with borderline hypothermia (i dont think i actually got hypothermia, but i felt like dying that weekend) My point is these are some drastic things that i pondered about; and the greatest question I keep asking is, "why am I still here? Was I forgotten?" I talked about this with my Aunt once, and she told me somthing I'll never forget. "You must have a great guardian angel, just like how you were Melissa's guardian angel." (Melissa was the one i saved from the ice) That's when I realized that fate had a weird way of keeping me around so that I could take care of others around me. In return it also taught me to be a bit more selfless, giving, and caring. I kinda became a living guardian angel i suppose sweatdrop Hope this made sense, kinda went off on a rant there
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Posted: Sun Dec 15, 2013 12:21 pm
Naifus I'm ian, I'm feeling very low this while, I'm always losing in a football match (soccer) and no self confidence in me, i can't approach a girl in real life and can't even talk to a receptionist either, I'm lazy to go out but once i went out with friends, i'm too quiet and always ponder on things in my life so consistently and simultaneously that my friends thinks i'm going depresed.
My love life is a bust and the only thing keeps me worried sick is my final examinations to get above 3.5 GPAs and currently I'm a 3.3 GPAs.
I don't know where to improve in my life, Anyone out there who cares? Here's what Ambro has to say biggrin I used to be just like you. In fact, I was just like you some months ago, plus my GPA is STILL lower than yours. You just need a turn in life. I decided to make my things change. I decided I wouldn't be who I was anymore and get out of my pity hole. I still either encounter the psycho women, which you don't wanna date trust me, but I can actually tell them to go f%&$ themselves and chose wisely. Yes! Chose! I can actually approach women. I have more confidence in myself. I still suck at every sport I encounter, but now that I have goals to be a U.S. Army Ranger Pilot my physical and mental condition has improved a whole lot. Set yourself goals. Put yourself first. Make a drastic decision without thinking about it too much. What changed me? I got kicked out of my house with nothing! I had nowhere to go, and I found myself lost everywhere I went. Maybe you need a push. I'm still quiet, but I keep my chin high and I have a lot more confidence in myself. I'm not telling you to join a fraternity, the army or anything at all. Just do whatever makes YOU happy. I know my decision made me VERY happy. Truly yours, Ambro
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