This makes sense.
love is a word that describes the human feeling of companionship. We as humans long to be with other creatures; we do not like to be alone. Love, in this way, comes in many different forms: pets, parents, friends, family, significant other. So, there really is no accurate definition for love because different people view it with a plethora of perspectives.
Well, when it comes to love of a significant other, i find that it is hard for me to trust fully. There is no definite way to make sure you can trust someone, or to know who to trust, you just have to go along with what feels right. i find that this works for me in many occasions. for example, my boyfriend; my feelings for him are ineffable. i can't simply say i love him, because sometimes, my feelings exceed more than just the boundaries of the word; however, i still question him at times. trust was something we had to work on for a long time before we got to where we are, and even now, i still have issues about it.
it is natural to be skeptical of other people. we are humans. that's what we do. we are curious, we question things, we acquire knowledge; it's how we work. we learn by trial and error. if we make a mistake, we are going to do our best to fix it, right? either way, you need to know when to lower your pride and admit to it. the person you care for should know that you care for them, and if you feel as if they do not remember you do, reiterate your feelings as much as you have to.
trusting someone is hard, in my opinion. but, you just have to look at the without your rose colored glasses on, and see the person for who they really are. listen to your friends and family when they say something is up because more often than not, they are telling the truth, i can say this from experience.
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