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Ame_Kaji_Arashi

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Posted: Sat May 18, 2013 4:44 pm

Okay, so I've been bisexual for ten years and each girl I ever dated ended up leaving me. Thought it was just me or something I said or did. But being 23 now I've been learning that my parents are driving them away putting fear in them and threatening them.

I care about my parents but they believe my passion for girls is a phase and believe that I can't be happy with other girls. I've seen similar things with other people.

But my fear is coming to a point, that I'm afraid of what my parents can do to my girl currently. They've got money and they're not afraid to use it.

The rate they are going I feel like I wasn't meant to be happy ever unless under their terms and I can't live by that. They make me want to set my girl free and spend the rest of my life alone and away from everyone.

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Posted: Sat May 18, 2013 6:22 pm

In what way are your parents threatening the girls you date? You mention that they "have money" and "aren't afraid to use it"; I'm not sure I understand what you mean.

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Ame_Kaji_Arashi

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Posted: Mon May 20, 2013 8:49 pm

Taeryyn

In what way are your parents threatening the girls you date? You mention that they "have money" and "aren't afraid to use it"; I'm not sure I understand what you mean.

Long and complicated story(s). Guess my initial post wasn't enough to cover my question.

I fear my parents trying to buy their way between me and happiness and separate me from those i care about. Sounds very stupid but I'm at a loss of how to clear my head and think positive.

Posted: Mon May 20, 2013 9:21 pm

Hmmm, That seems to be quite a serious predicament, your parents are trying to pry into your love life by making your previous girlfriends "Leave" per say. To tell you the truth i think the only way for you to truly be happy is to confront your parents, and if they don't understand you may just have to cut of communication temporarily. I'm sure I'm of no real help, I am not the best with advice, but I hope you can have a happy future. Good luck.