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 Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 9:58 am
morikoarina2 i thought it was for a while, but recently I can hardly get his attention. i try to not feel anything cuz it hurts but why cant he even notice that he is hurting me? its stupid that I feel lonely even when sitting near him. I've been there...= Now I RP sexually but...when I was with my ex, no matter how bad it got I was still faithful just how I was raised but...Unless you're comfortable with him doing that stuff... . . . Do you cosplay? Have you thought about trying to use Cosplay to get his attention? Or ask if he'd be willing to do the RP thing with you instead?
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 10:08 am
Aiswynd Kiev morikoarina2 i thought it was for a while, but recently I can hardly get his attention. i try to not feel anything cuz it hurts but why cant he even notice that he is hurting me? its stupid that I feel lonely even when sitting near him. I've been there...= Now I RP sexually but...when I was with my ex, no matter how bad it got I was still faithful just how I was raised but...Unless you're comfortable with him doing that stuff... . . . Do you cosplay? Have you thought about trying to use Cosplay to get his attention? Or ask if he'd be willing to do the RP thing with you instead? i am fine with the rping if it does not take from our relationship, but it has a great deal. its easier for him to rp than deal with a real person. he is so use to saying words that dont have any meaning to him just to make the other person" happy". i have tried to get him to rp with me but he refuses. i dont know what i would do for cosplaying though never done it. maybe part of the problem is he is too submissive. I dont want submissive.
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Fashionable Businesswoman
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 10:20 am
. . . I can't say anything on the submissive, it's an issue I am working on fixing with myself...
As for him...if he was submissive, he'd be bending to your will and doing stuff with you...
Um...as for...cosplay, does he like any anime or video game characters in particular?
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Posted: Mon May 06, 2013 11:43 pm
Aiswynd Kiev . . . I can't say anything on the submissive, it's an issue I am working on fixing with myself... As for him...if he was submissive, he'd be bending to your will and doing stuff with you... Um...as for...cosplay, does he like any anime or video game characters in particular? not that i know of.
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Posted: Tue May 07, 2013 12:14 am
That makes it difficult = but it also can be costly if you aren't good at being thrifty and sewing...honestly I...really have no idea how to help you with this...
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Posted: Thu Sep 19, 2013 3:48 am
The best relationship I had was also the worst. I could do no wrong in his eyes and he let me do what ever I wanted. It was as if I was in a relationship with myself and he was my father just watching me play in the park. I won every argument, it was ridiculous. Even when he was right, he didn't want to point it out. Now that I'm older, I realize how badly I want a guy who isn't afraid of me.
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Posted: Fri Oct 18, 2013 12:05 pm
Back in college I began seeing a friend of my roommate. Well actually she introduced us in hopes of hooking me up with someone. I don't do so well with guys because I'm incredibly shy. Anyways, the guy had an infant daughter and said that he was just recently gotten a divorce from his wife. I never questioned it any further since it really had nothing to do with me. Fast forward a couple of weeks. We are seeing one another practically every single day and I'm even making plans to spend Valentine's Day with him. Things are looking up----that is until one evening when I decide to call his house because he'd apparently left something at the dorm. A woman called up and asked who I was. I explained that we were just friends mutually... then I asked who SHE was...."HIS WIFE!' she kind of growled into the line.
Needless to say, I distanced myself from the guy after all of that. I'm not the 'home wrecking' type. What's even funnier is that a few semesters later he and I crossed paths again. We spoke briefly and out of nowhere he told me that he was officially divorced in case I was still interested. ........Yeah, right.
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Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2014 10:24 pm
I want to say my worst was my first boyfriend, who raped me.
But really, the worst is the most recent. We're not technically broken up but we're also not technically together. We spent every second we could together in the first few months. He said I love you first. I was so shocked that I cant even remember if I said it back that same night or not. I just wasn't expecting it. I thought I was just a fling. He talked about a future with me first. He always brought it up first. He's got three kids. (4, 9 and 10) And he'd talk about all of us like a family. Where we'd live. How great of a mum I'd be. Having kids with me some day. He even called me his future wife a few times. He'd look me in the eyes and tell me he loved me and that he wasn't going to leave me. That I'm his soul mate. Then he started his business. And everything changed. Now he no longer wants to see me. The last few times I've seen him it was just so he could screw me. He doesn't even really talk to me anymore. He's "too busy".
He's one of those guys, you know? Makes you feel pretty and loved and special. Brings you to life. And when he starts to make you feel like s**t and you ask him about it, he swears he loves you.
He says he's addicted to me. But he won't even talk to me.
But he's also the best relationship I've ever had. He's sweet and he's funny and he's brilliant. He made me happier than I've ever been in my 23 years of life. (And the sex is mind blowing) I love just being in the same room as him. Simply talking to him can change my mood.
And honestly, I love him very much. More than I have ever loved anyone, including my own family.
And his kids...his kids are the only people I love more than I love him. They're beautiful and clever and sweet. They're so much like their father and yet completely their own person. And they loved me too.
Moving on from him and those kids is going to be a b***h.
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